Ok so my dh's mother made the decision to be Jewish. She is a very kind women, but very nutty. She changes religion like underwear and becomes fanatical about each one. Sd13 spent quite a bit of time with her this summer, and though we have talked and talked to mil about not forcing her religion on the kids, she does anyway. Well sd went on vacation with bm. Dh gets frantic texts about how sd13 has told the whole Carla's of people Jesus means nothing to her, ad she s a Jew. She said a lot more, and in true sd form was very hateful. Ss10 was incredibly upset because sd wouldn't get into heaven. Big argument ensues, frantic texting. Bm thinks we should keep ad away from mil. I don't completely disagree, but geez lady....she wants us to convince sd she isn't Jewish from 600 miles away, when sd won't even answer her phone. This kid is a real piece f work. So now my dh is very quiet, stressing out that sd will start all ER violent, "suicidal" behavior again because of this wwiii argument with bm. Bm has been what sd blames for most of her problems. I don't get to enjoy time with my dh because he is now brooding, bm is up in our business again, and I can almost see this kid smirking over the whole thing. Ugh, she s a bitch. Both of them are. And I'm furious with mil because of this. She has a bad habit f talking crap about bm with sd there, which the divorce decree is very clear about. The little selfish bitch s going to end up getting us taken to court. It seems everytime bm takes se shopping, buys her a ton of clothes, Mae up, jewelry, etc, about a week later this happens. Arg...so sick of her.