I get asked what GUBM stands for fairly regularly on this site. GUBM = Golden Uterus Bio/Birth Mom.

How did I decide upon this moniker for the demon spawn that unleashed SD unto this world? Well, once upon a time, someone shared an article here on STalk about Golden Uterus Complex:

15 Characteristics of the Golden Uterus
http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/05/17/does-your-wife-or-ex-wife-have-a-go...

It is definitely worth clicking through to read the article in its entirety. It also gives 15 helpful descriptions so you, too, can decide if you are dealing with a GUBM.

When I first read it, it was like a revelation. It felt as if the author knew my BM soooo well. As if the author had just spent a year following GUBM around.

In addition to the above article, this site contains the following pieces related to GUs:

Rudeness, Stress and Abuse are Neurotoxins: Children Who Witness Spousal Abuse Are at Risk
http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/01/12/rudeness-stress-and-abuse-are-neuro...

Parallel Parenting: You Cannot Co-Parent with a High-Conflict, Abusive and Crazy Ex
http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/07/25/parallel-parenting-you-cannot-co-pa...

The Dark Side of Mother’s Day aka Golden Uterus Day: High-Conflict and Abusive Personality Disordered Mothers
http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/05/09/the-dark-side-of-mothers-day-aka-go...

A list of all the articles tagged with Golden Uterus
http://www.shrink4men.com/tag/golden-uterus/

There are also a few other articles, blogs, etc scattered about the net, too. So, go forth and google!