Ok-so if you've read my blogs in the past you might remember that we are 99.9% certain that my inlaws have been stealing from us. From thousands in cash, to my wedding rings from my first marriage, my clothes, to silly things like lotion and such. We have valid reason to believe it was one or many of them acting together. Since dh has sorta banned them from our home nothing has gone missing.

He did continue to talk to his sister though. She adamantly denied taking anything (although IMO she is probably the primary suspect),but dh just wasnt sure so he maintained some phone contact with her. Anywho-dh and I go on a date on Friday night. If you all have followed my blogs, you know dh is struggling mental health wise so to get him out of the house and enjoying a lovely date night was a real victory and things were going well-until sil starts calling and texting-dh did talk to her for about 10 min. She was upset because her bf was drunk. Well, ok-he was pleasant with her for a few minutes-she wanted to "hang out" with dh-but he shut her down and said tonight is not a good nite. Then she starts texting MY phone as my dh's died. Saying at 11pm she was going to drop by our house since we werent answering (we were at a movie and it just got out around 11p)-dh takes my phone and texts back, "We are not at home, we are on a date, please let us have some time alone together"-didnt specify if it was from me or him. she texted back and said she was sorry wouldnt bother us anymore. I thought fine it was resolved. The next morning I get up and she had texted me this long message about how "fake and heartless" I am and she should be able to talk to her bro anytime she wants and she doesnt understand why we would need "alone" time since we live togehter and IF i really loved her brother maybe I'd try harder. WTF? I politely texted her back-that the message wasnt from ME-but it's good to know how she feels and any communication she wants to have with her brother is between the two of them and has nothing to do with me. I havent heard from her since. But again WTF? I am pretty sure she has been stealing from me and then has the balls to tell me I'm fake and heartless when I never even spoke to her and even if she did think that message was from me-there was nothing fake or heartless about it. WOW.

So, yesterday MY dd14 starts getting messages from her cousin (sil's son)asking her out! Again WTF? They are cousins. She pointed out to him that they were cousins-that no thank you and he just keeps continually texting her telling her how beautiful she was and he needs someone in his life and please accept his offer. Finally she tells him to leave her the EFF alone. I dont approve of bad language in general with my kiddos-but in this situation I feel it was appropriate-since trying to tell him no nicely wasnt working.

WTF is wrong with these people? Seriously. My dh just shook his head and said, "they keep making me look worse and worse".