Over the weekend after DH allowed SD14 to use the laptop I noticed that she'd deleted a few things from the "shortcut" list on the home page. If anyone is unfamiliar with this whatever websites you visit often will appear as a shortcut. Well DH being his usual naive self let her stay on the laptop ALL NIGHT LONG!!...since I was sick in bed. She thinks she's so slick, but not as slick as me of course. I went into the history and saw that she's visited a Free Text website (text had been blocked from her phone a few months ago) literally the entire night.....up until 9:15am Monday morning! When I pulled the site up there was a phone number still in the recipient box, so I blocked our number before called the mysterious number back, and of course a boy answered the phone. I brought this to DH's attention and this was their conversation...

DH: SD whose number is this that you were texting all night on the computer?

SD: My friend from the swim team at my school.

DH: Well, what is he supposed to be your boyfriend or something, because if so we need to talk.

SD: NOOOOO...he's my friend Dad.

DH: Oh ok, well no more computer all night long.

SD: ok...(*innocent face*)

Me:...(*staring her down cause she may have him fool, but not me by a long shot*)

So she hasn't been on the computer I've had it in our room since DH doesn't know how to put his foot down about anything. Last night my mom came over to babysit while we went to dinner. My mom is very easy to get over on so I knew SD would try to take advantage of that. So we get home from dinner and from the outside I can see our bedroom light on, which shouldn't be. I asked DH if he told SD she could get on the computer, and he said yes, but she knows not to get on that website....smh! Ok still, she's not allowed to chill in our room with her little snooping behind! I walk up the stairs and she's sitting on our bed with frowny face listening to some disney channel song on YouTube. I laugh to myself because the day before I had a friend of mine cover to place a parental block on about a dozen websites including the one she frequented. She shut the computer and said, "I'm about to go to bed."....HAHAHAHAHA!

Before my mom left she told me that SD was on the phone a few minutes ago, and that's what she thought she was upstairs doing, so apparently she dropped her call when she heard us arrive home. So I checked the caller ID....nothing. Then I check the redial list and BOOM....she had the nerve to call this boy from our phone, but blocked the number out a few minutes before we arrived.

SD has been sleeping downstairs on the chase lounge since her bed is covered with her clothes I packed, so I before going to bed I took the batteries out of the phone and placed it back on the base without her knowing it. When I awoke this morning the phone was on the counter and a few cabinet drawers in the kitchen was ajar. I'm guessing from her searching for the batteries..... }:)

I've told her before, "Anything you think you can do to get over on me, I promise you I have been there done that, and have the t-shirt to prove it." I can only imagine how pissed she was last night. Now she can take that mess back her BM's home, because I've told her honesty is the best policy. I've also told her and DH that she can be fast/grown all she wants, but she's not coming into this house with a baby! I'v already had to deal with her for damn 10yrs I will not deal with her plus one.