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Could he just leave her where she is.....PLEASE!!!

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Haven't posted in while, and that's because SD14 is still with BM.....thank God! She is still ignoring DH as if she's not going to need him soon, and as if he hasn't taken care of her her whole life, but of course I could care less. My summer is going great without her, he on the other hand I can tell is hurt. She didn't even call to wish him a happy father's day which really hurt his feelings being as though when she lived with us she always went out of her way to wish her a mother a happy birthday, Mother's day, Easter, and every other holiday.

Hehehe.....good morning SP''s!

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Over the weekend after DH allowed SD14 to use the laptop I noticed that she'd deleted a few things from the "shortcut" list on the home page. If anyone is unfamiliar with this whatever websites you visit often will appear as a shortcut. Well DH being his usual naive self let her stay on the laptop ALL NIGHT LONG!!...since I was sick in bed. She thinks she's so slick, but not as slick as me of course. I went into the history and saw that she's visited a Free Text website (text had been blocked from her phone a few months ago) literally the entire night.....up until 9:15am Monday morning!

BM has to do WHAT with her money???

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SD14 decided to stay the week here with us, and has been acting "nice" which is not her usual "don't talk to me because I don't care" self. I couldn't understand why she decided to stay here until the weekend because according to her while she lived with us she couldn't wait to move with BM. Well last night she tells DH that BM said he has to pay $60 plus spending money for her end of the school year trip, and her dress & shoes for some program at school because BM has to send HER BF whose incarcerated money and she also has to save HER money to travel back and forth to see him.

I could really use a little advice!

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So as I've stated in a few older post my SD14 moved back with BM about 6wks ago after living with us for 4yrs. Pretty much the entire 4yrs all SD talked about was moving back with BM. Every other week they were moving to a different state or a different county. Well the time finally came and she moved into an apartment with her BM and 4 other siblings (not DH's kids). She came over this weekend (I think just to ruin my 3day weekend), and I had a few bags for her to go through.

Here she comes AGAIN!!!

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So I shared my story for the first time yesterday about my evil, ungrateful SD14 who lived with us for the past 4yrs although DH has pretty much been the sole provider for her her entire life. I'm pretty sure we have paid for many if not all of BM's mani+pedi's, jacked up weaves, and tacky heels. SD moved back with BM a month ago (she finally has her own place. Let's see how long this last), and now doesn't even acknowledge DH.

JUST DISCOVERED THIS SITE AND YOU ALL ARE AWESOME!

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Hello everyone, I am new the site, and before signing up I decided to read a few post first. I commend you all on sticking in there and toughing it out. I am a 26yr old step mom to a now 14 yr old stepdaughter, and it has been nothing but rough the past 9yrs. Its kind of late so I'll share my story tomorrow. I just wanted you all to know that your posts are a breath of fresh air for me. No one around me knows or understand what it is like being a step parent so this site is refreshing!