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Submitted by Druz on Sun, 05/20/2012 - 2:43pm

He said you mean to tell me there is like a whole community of you guys...lol
I also told him about posting the yourube video and everything getting crazy and guess what he isn't upset in the least. He thinks SD deserved it.

Although some of the comments were wrong and I'm glad I was able to get it deleted. Hopefully before SD saw some of the really hurtful ones.

SD is here this weekend and so far everything has been pretty cool. DH is going to cook out later and maybe I will see if I can find a movie we can all watch together.

Anyway I know some of you were worried what might happen if DH found out about all that so I was just letting you all know all that happened was I feel better that he now knows about the one thing I had kept from him.

And now no one has anything to try and black mail me with...lol

So sorry for your luck Smile

I love that man! and the fact that he truely loves me more then I could have ever dreamer.

I told him those ladies are the reason we are still married and he is just thankful I was able to find help to deal with all the baggage and drama he knows he brought in my life.

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Submitted by Beautiful Dreamer on Sun, 05/20/2012 - 2:58pm

Yay! I have been wondering what happened to you. I'm so glad your DH is an understanding man.

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Submitted by Druz on Sun, 05/20/2012 - 3:07pm

Well he knows how crazy dealing with SD and BM can make someone he's about at the end of his rope himself. I didn't figure he would have a issue with any of it and I hadn't really even planned on telling him. I only did because he was upset I wasn't able to save the video and I told him I may not of saved it but one of the other Stepmoms on the support group I belong to managed to save the audio to it and she sent it too me. So thats how it came out.
He was a little shocked when he asked me how long I had been involved with this and I told Jim four years but like I said hes just thankful our marriage was saved and we are now happy.

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Submitted by Druz on Sun, 05/20/2012 - 5:14pm

This too shall pass! Us longtimers have saw so many come and go we dont pay much mind to the haters. They are just miserable people that feel the need to make anyone else they possibly can miserable. There really is no need fir it! They gain nothing!
I feel sorry for them more then anything it must be horrible living that way.

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Submitted by Beautiful Dreamer on Sun, 05/20/2012 - 6:06pm

I cannot help but wonder how many BM's actually have looked on this site trying to see if SM is on here.

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Submitted by Anywho78 on Sun, 05/20/2012 - 7:23pm

YAY! So happy to hear that your DH "gets it"! Welcome back! I hope you have a wonderful evening Smile

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Submitted by stepmomto3bioto1 on Sun, 05/20/2012 - 8:18pm

Its great to hear from you. My DH knows about the site too, and has zero probs with me coming here. I even have him read posters stories that are similar sometimes!! I missed the whole video dibacle, but am thrilled your still here!!! Glad you dont let the troublemakers get to you either!!!