So, when I left off, SD21's BF was put in jail. He has since been moved to prison until 2015. Did I mention he's 5'7" and slightly built and very pretty? Not the sort that is meant to be in prison.

So SD21 figures out that she can't afford to keep the house that they rented because that might actually require getting a job. So she moves in her crew of loser friends. The first is a couple. The guy has been friends with her BF since childhood and has no job, is a drug addict and pawned his belongings to help pay the rent. The girl is 18, and has a six month old daughter that has been taken away by CPS. I don't even want to know what you have to do to get your 6 month old taken away. Evidently, she also has a drug problem and no job (but she's going to start working at Hooters).

Then she adds a loser cousin of the friend, and two more male friends that are sleeping on the couch. And somehow she has managed to convince these people that their share of the rent is $130/person. This adds up to more than the rent and means she has to pay nothing.

So things are going along swimmingly, until these people realize that she is using them for money. She then tries to hook up with both the guy and the girl of the couple. Tells them she likes when they listen to her masturbate (loudly), walks up to them naked, etc. They realize the situation isn't good, and decide that they might move out and start ignoring her.

So one night they are tired of hearing her bitch and moan about BF in jail, and they go into another room and ignore her. So what does SD do? Fakes a seizure. And tells them, I think I'm having a seizure. Right. So they're worried and they take her to the ER in the middle of the night. Guess who gets a phone call from the roomates at 4am? DH of course. So he gets up to go to the hospital and I decide I'm going with him (for his sake, not hers). So by the time we get to the hospital in her town, the doctors have already figured out she's faking, the roomates have figured out she's faking, and they're ready to discharge her. DH and I knew from the beginning that she was faking because she did something like this before when she was in high school.

During this time, DH talks to her and she admits to taking someone else's ADHD drugs. She tries to convince him she has ADHD. Um, no you don't. She admits to drinking heavily. While DH is talking to her I'm talking to the roomates learning all kinds of things that she's been hiding from DH and the extended family. None of this suprises me. DH hears enough of this to realize SD21 is off her rocker, which I have known for a long time, but he finally 100% gets it now. He talks to her some more about going to therapy, and she says she's going to go, blah, blah, blah.

So the entire family knows about this now. I am no longer the only one screaming from the mountaintop that she is BPD/HPD like her mom, and she needs therapy.

From the friends, we found out that
1.) She has not been going to school and is down to 1 class that she might pass
2.) The BF cheated on her 6 times in 6 months and she has self-injured when they were fighting
3.) SD21 told the friends that DH physically abused her her whole life, has thrown her across the room, choked her up against the wall, etc. (none of which is true)
4.) She has NEVER paid the rent with her own money in all the time she's lived in this house. DH's brother gave her $300 last month to pay
5.) She has not been looking for a job and has no intention of doing so
6.) She does nothing all day but sit around and write letters to her BF in prison and cry about him or she's drinking/doing drugs

So, the good part for me. People finally believe me. I am no longer a crazy mean bitch. Everyone realizes SD21 has been lying to them and manipulating them. I am finally vindicated.

Stay tuned for the next installment which I will probably call "Karma backlash - I knew it was coming"