God this man is a trip!!! He asked me for a pass (I work for an airline) to go see his parents (and fiance he's never met) ...his dad is ill but not on death bed (they live in another country) I've asked him countless times since he doesn't go often to wait till the kids are off from school and take them with him so they can meet and spend time w/his family. He keeps saying how much he wants to take them over and over, but every time you somehow can't take them? His family would be ALL OVER THEM and he could spend most of his time doing whatever he wanted-YES there would be some language issues but his bil speaks english very well and could help translate for them also.

BUT NO...why would he EVER use ANY of HIS vacation time with his children like I do???? Anyways-I told him to send me the details and his cc info to ticket his pass....but not w/out letting the bm psycho in me come out and let him have it.....told him in the future if he was traveling for pleasure then he can buy his own darn ticket, why should I help him out when he never in 8 years has spent the time w/the kids he should (i left out that he is thousands in arrears from past years) in addition he's making me switch wknds around AGAIN for HIS convenience, he never split the last two weeks as he said, when he returns he will have seen the boys 1 1/2days in 1 1/2MONTHS and he lives 45 min away.

Keeps promising to split holidays or weeks off or summer and never does. Yet he expects me to help him? I WAS DUMB, my fault, I shoudl have just said no...you know what? When you take the kids with you on a trip i'll gladly help you out by providing you a pass (he still pays a cost and taxes for these, and it's no cost to me)...but to go visit his family and finally meet his gf/fiancee whatever she is? NOPE.

So...he owes me two weeks in CS-he pays weekly, he assured me he would deposit both weeks yesterday am (should have deposited one last friday), he hasn't. he assured me he wanted to contribute towards the big gifts for xmas (which I didn't ask him to) and he didn't but that's ok, he did presents on his own also.

I also asked if he would be advancing one week (since he will be gone for two) or how he would handle that? But I'm not demanding that be deposited. So far my bank does not show the two weeks. And the other thing is since he will have been off from work (I THINK his vacation is unpaid don't know) he will likely be late AGAIN when he returns because he spent all his money there and hasn't been paid.

I swear to God I will LOSE a pass BUT if he does not deposit by close of bsns I will cancel the ticket-and refund him ONLY when I get the CS owed. I will NOT be made a fool of. This man has traveled every time down there on MY passes as a FAVOR which I don't owe him SHIT and never takes his children-ALL his vacation time is spent on HIM. I will PULL a PSYCHO BM on his ass so fast his head will spin. I'm the poster child of GOOD BM and ex-wife but darn even I have my limits.

I will not say a word, he can find out when he gets to the airport tonight and his ticket is cancelled.