Had to share
So BM just called me at work to boot all upset about not having a boyfriend (shes so lonely) and how I did it for all those years by myself with 2 children before DH came into the pic. (guess SD told her about me life somewhat) How she wants to be friends with me because SD and DH are just not fair to her and they hate her and I seem so nice and never get into there business and am so neutral and blah blah blah....I was like ahhhhhhh....I just am a very independant person and I am so sorry you are going through a hard time but I am kinda busy at work so I wish you all the best of luck and things will get better you just have to stay focused on whats important, your children right now (has baby from last boyfriend, one she cheated on DH with).....Good luck!!!
WTF was that? I mean I have been with my DH for 5 years...and never once have I even talked to this woman. She knows I am here and vis versa but never have we talked or been friends and frankly I am all set with that....Talking about my life is not going to happen but I am to nice to have said that to her. Maybe I should of but how can I do that without drama? Anyone ever deal with this one before? When we hung up she said I look forward to getting to know you bye....AHHHHH I DONT THINK SO!!!! I like it just the way we do it...HELP!!! How do I come across with ahhh no and not cause drama? and should I tell mu husband she called? I think hes gonna be pissed he hates her already...
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tell your husband, it could
tell your husband, it could cause problems between you and him if you dont. As far as BM I dont know. If mine did that I would be screaming at her.
Wow, that is totally freaky.
Wow, that is totally freaky. Your response was perfect. I wouldn't have known what to say, would have probably just hung up on her :jawdrop:
See we never had a
See we never had a conversation or any issues between us ever....My DH is going to be BS I already know it....There goes the drama free!!!
Her little one is a very sick
Her little one is a very sick child and was my pt awhile ago...
Okay, first off I'd be *very*
Okay, first off I'd be *very* concerned with her taking the attitude the "SD and DH are just not fair to her and they hate her" talk... why in the WORLD would she tell YOU that?
Next you know, if she's batsht crazy, she'll turn it around and it'll come back to bite you.
I agree, stay away, keep your distance, build that wall. No way would I take her up on that.
What I refer to as "Curiously
What I refer to as "Curiously Cunning"
OHHH I have no plans on
OHHH I have no plans on becomming her friend what so ever but not sure how to tell her without causing drama or comming off like a bitch.
I would never call my childrens fathers wife and have a conversation with her. (and she was my best friend for years) thats a long story....but wouldn't do it and to call at work i mean really? So out of nowhere....I am all good with that BS
No she lives 10 min.
No she lives 10 min. away...and thats a great idea....I was just caught so off guard and when my assistant said BM is on the phone at first I had no idea who it was...When I got on the phone I think I was like :jawdrop:
I would have heard, "Hi, Sky.
I would have heard, "Hi, Sky. This is PB..."
::click::
End of story. I don't need to hear about her pathetic life which is made from all of her own poor choices.
Thanks everyone I am talking
Thanks everyone I am talking to DH tonight...
My BM tried to be "friends"
My BM tried to be "friends" with me - I don't think she had ulterior motives but who knows. I just refused every lunch request, ignored every chipper facebook comment, and blew past her with just a cheery hello whenever she was over picking up the kids or whatever. I was never rude, just kept my boundaries. Last thing I wanted in the world was some kinda commiseration BS over SO or something. Anyway, she eventually got the picture and doesn't try anymore.