Your blog is funny:) Maybe you should be proud that you are the one that landed him. If everyone thinks he is that special then you must be quite a woman for him to be with you. Try to look at the positive.

Hi MH. I have read several of your blogs and trust me, I feel your pain!!! You sound a lot like me 4 years ago when I was starting out. I will give you some advice I wish someone gave me even though you didn't ask and I rarely do this but it just reminds me so much of my situation. My advice is t for YOU to read the court order. I think your D/H is not telling you everything. It sounds like he agreed to a really stupid open ended schedule and even though he thinks it's unfair and complains about it I wouldn't be surprised if this is what he agreed to. I used to get so pissed at BM (and still do) about some of the complete BS that goes on, like him having to do all the driving, her getting the kids EVERY Christmas, ONLY HIM having to get them a car when they turn 16, etc... I could go on and on to the stupid shit he agreed to but I only have so much time. I know he only did it because I was not going to continue seeing him unless he got divorced and said we could pick it back up when his divorce was final but I would never have guessed he would have agreed to what he did. The truth is I don't even think he thought about it, I think he just assumed it would be fair, never hired an attorney, never had me look at it, never had anyone look at it. It suck because it not only effects him it effects us but we do crazy things when we're in love. Anyway, even if I am right, it doesn't make it any easier but might help get over the unfairness of it all. Good luck hope you get things straightened out.

HAHA! I love this post but I do feel ur pain! BM flirts with my husband all the time and he just brushes it off and ignores it. She tells him that he's getting soooo BUFF! and that she likes his haircut...ummm NEWS FLASH!! He's in the ARMY it's the same freakin hair cut he's had forever! She pisses me off! Chicks on facebook are always so happy to comment EVERY post and picture he puts up too, and I'm like who the hell are these bitches?? he doesn't see it the way I do he thinks it's "no big deal" but it is to me! Good luck with everything, but it's true you must be pretty amazing yourself to have a guy that everyone thinks so highly of!