I would tell my DH that seeing his son isn't a treat to be looked forward to for me. It's extra responsibility and work and I'd really enjoy a "thank you" from time to time.

Dear DH: you were an idiot 7 years ago. Wanting to have a child with a lazy, gross woman whose family members openly do drugs and are incredibly GHETTO.

How dare you NOT wait for me to have your first baby?

LOL

BM: Grow up and be a parent to your children. You have two...You are not doing your daughter any favors. When she comes home pregnant do not call us and ask for help. She is your problem...

MIL, FIL, SIS, BIL: Do not ever come to us asking to visit. You made your choice when you decided to have a relationship with BM and SD15. You are not welcome in my life or my home until you apologize for the entire situation you created.

DH: Get your head out of your ass and realize that SD15 is exactly who you and BM raised. You tried to be the Dad who was permissive, because you felt so damn guilty about the divorce. She was manipulative when I came into your life 6 years ago, I did not make her this way, because I wanted her to make her damn bed. She was this way and when you and BM couldn't give her rules, you got this child. My parenting looks really good to you now. Now, you want my help. Too late for SD. She is not welcome here unless BM is out of her life. Now she is exactly what you created...if you want her back, my rules before are going to look like Mary Poppins, this time around, she gets a Military Officer in Boot Camp. This time, it is on my terms.

Prayers to above: Please do not let the Judge give us SD15.....Just SS13. That I can handle. I do not want that manipulative brat in my house.

Thanks, I needed that vent today. I can't imagine if I said it out loud.

I'd tell BM to take a long walk off a short bridge and to take all her pedophile boyfriends/fiances with her.

To the Twit: I've only seen your father cry twice, and you were the cause of one of them. You are shameful. Do him a favor and forget his number. His life will be better without you.

To BM: You will never know how many times I defended you to DH. You don't know how many angry phone calls from DH you did not get because of me. Still, you had to push it. What I did to you in April I will do again if you dare call him again. That's a promise.

To SS28: I'm sorry that because of your sister you don't get the benefit of my awesome gift giving ability. I know you understand.

To SDIL: I only acknowledge your existence because I'm married to your FIL. It's not because I actually like you.

Ok i'll have some fun!

Dear Bm:

You are a money hungry grubby big fat WHORE! Get a job and support your own damn self and stop expecting dh to support you! You also need to stop putting the boys in the middle of your crap with dh. Stop letting ss15 have spousal status. He is confused enough. Stop with the consent opinions about my kids to dh they are none of your business! Oh and life doesn't revolve around just the kids get a life outside of them so that they can get their own life and be normal kids!

Stop pulling the single mom card no one else wants to hear that you are not working but yet you have such a horrible time being a single mom! There are so many single parents out there that go to school full time and work full time AND take care of their kids FULL TIME! The ONLY thing you do is a mom and they are in school and all teens you do NOT have it worse then any other single parent in fact you have it much better then most. Everyone in your life is sick of hearing you be the victim including your own kids!

Do you have any idea what you are putting your kids through or what you are teaching them by expecting others to support you and the boys?? My guess is you don't b/c they are now expecting us to foot the bill for everything or their gma or your aunt but never you!

Also stop telling them how awful of a daddy dh is or that he doesn't matter. He does matter and he is a wonderful father just b/c he doesn't do it the way you (which is to just buy them any and everything they want and let them do what they want) doesn't mean he is not a good father. To the rest of the world he is an awesome dad as he makes his kids mind and earn what they want and he a helping part of our family.

The sad part is that they would rather be here then at your house even though we don't buy them everything they want and still expect them to clean up after themselves and otehr things. want to know why?? I bet you do b/c they are sick of your crap whining and yelling and bad mouthing us to them and always painting yourself as the victim. We do things as a family like bike riding and camping and sports and stuff not just shopping for what they want. Which is your only sport that gets you off the couch ever wonder why your butt is as huge as it is??

Ok think I'm done.

OH BOY>>>>>Ok-granted this comes on the heel of a pretty decent wknd overall w/the SD. BUT

To SD: Quit being so damn bossy and rude to my boys-it's HIS birthday and it's NOT about you. I DO thank you for helping me aroudn the house when you weren't busy ignoring me and my rules of no tag in the house. And NO your highlights do NOT look cute-you look like the exact replica of your trashy mother MORE so then you did before. I thank you for not wearing hoochie clothes this wknd and acting overall like a decent human being-even giving me a few hugs-oh and PS I'm sorry you have a shit head for a mom and the adults aroudn you give you adult spousal status-feeding you to be a twisted person to be aroudn now and in the future.

To BF: This week I dont' have anything to bitch at you about-you were great w/the kids-you've been most lovely to me-you were great helping me host my sons bday party-and cleaning up the next day while I slept in and kept the kids and your crotch droppling under control for the most part- you were great putting up w/my asshole X being there and sitting his nasty ass next to you -but better you then me so thanks for taking one for the team, even my mom thanked you as she's sat next to him for ten years and enjoyed the break LOL-and NOPE will not have a joint gathering again-so don't worry.

To BM: Woman, first of all just because now SD has a phone doesn't mean you shoudl text her 18 times the wknd she's not with you. The highlights you allowed her to have thinking matching you is cute-looks horrible. You are a neglectful mother-you have a job but might as well be one of those welfare moms in name only-that even kept hidden the fact of the kids real DNA-AND that use their kids as paychecks and give them adult spousal status-poison against dad and raise a self-centered jerk for a child. Also-please make up your damn mind...dick or pussy, pussy or dick....but stick with one and quit introducing and bringing back women/men-now had enought w/the married man back to the angry butch in/out of SD's life confusing the hell out of the poor kid. YOu are disgusting!

To my exh: You disgust me with coming to MY home-and still trying to monopolize my parents/brothers time, speaking in another language and taking MY MAN's seat (he was next to my brother) w/out even asking. Don't TELL ME to get you a glass...I'm not getting up unless I'm getting up for somebody else. As much as it sucks for you-YOU are not the man of this house nor have been for well over 7 years-know your damn place.

If i had one day to say everything i wanted to say without consequences... it would take me the full 24hours to say it, and about 10+ pages of txt on this forum.

I'm not sure i even allow myself to actually THINK all of those things i want to say because i'll just feel angry and bitter all the time if i did.

And no, today was not a particularily good day either. Patients and understanding are beginning to lose the war against anger.

DH it is all your fault that SS14 is a complete buffoon!!You never hold him to any consequence and you let him do whatever he wants because you are too damn lazy to parent him!!

SS the sight of you makes me vomit in my mouth! How is it possible to go days without brushing your teeth? Do you not notice the grease that has pooled on your face? What about the hair that is matted to your head? What do you use when there is no toilet paper in the bathroom? Do you realize that you have been caught leaving turds in the toilet with no toilet paper! You disgust me!

BM you do not dictate my daily life!! I will not take YOUR 14 yr old son everywhere I go because he can't be trusted alone! I will not sit and hold his hand in order to get his homework done. He has learned no responsiblity in life and it's not up to me to teach him! He is your kid why don't you come and get him? Why in the world do you think I want time with him while his dad is at work? If I wasn't around where would your son be?

*curse words ahead*

SD: First off, I love you. I know you're "cute" but at your age wearing a string bikini and asking me if you waxxed enough is out of line. I find that trampy and disgusting - much like your whore of a mother, Horsehead. Stop with the baby voices too; you think people think you're stupid - well guess what - you sound stupid when you speak like that. Also, shut the fuck up about the house your dad and mom owned. I don't give a flying fuck about it and I sure as fuck am not going to ever live in it - even if your dad owns it forever. MY HOUSE is the house we live in now and I wouldn't live where your mom was bedding half the town anyway. And on that subject - IT'S MY HOUSE - MY RULES. SHUT UP. Sucks that your Dad goes along with me; but as I told him in the beginning - we're either together or I'm out. He chose to be in it with me. Sucks to be you. OH and BTW - We could get along great if you weren't trying to impress half the towns boys. You will NOT get my sympathy and you're really lucky that your Dad isn't a DisneyDad - you might have a shot in hell of growing up to be half way decent. As long as we can keep your legs closed. Seriously, I'd love to help you become a gorgeous young lady who would go very far and have a bright future - but well, I'm not trying if you're not willing to put in the effort. I hope you come around.

SS: I love you. I really don't have anything bad to say about you. I get along with you so well. You're smart and thankfully, you only look like Horsehead, but mostly you're like your dad. My only beef with you is that you try to sneak up on us like you're going to catch us doing something - and well if you do "catch" us doing something - sucks to be you. Again, this is my house (and you will share a room in my house and you will get over it). Overall though, I think that you've got a lot going for you. Just don't listen to Horsehead when she talks about cheating the system, welfare, etc - she's a liar and a manipulator. But you know that, else you wouldn't ask us to hold on to your money so that Horsehead doesn't steal it from you. That breaks my heart. But mostly, you're a normal kid and I love that about you.

SO: OMG - how I love you! I really wish you wouldn't have had sex with her. I know you had low self esteem and all (well that's what I'm going with) but damn, she's crazy. I hate when I see the shame in your eyes when you have to talk about her. It breaks my heart because you truly are a wonderful person. You're the Triple H, the peanut butter to my jelly, the macaroni to my cheese, and so much more. Thanks for being persistant. Sometimes I can be a little pigheaded; thanks goodness you're patient.

BS: I love you. You're my son. Now clean your room. And do as you're told. And stop being so much like me. You're not an adult. You're 8. If you keep this up, you're going to think you can run for President at the age of 12. Little Mr Know It All. But I still love you. You may irk me to no end sometimes, but I love you. When I picked you up from camp this past weekend and you threw your arms around me and said "Camp is fun, but there's no place like home" it made my day. I'm not the perfect mom and you're not the perfect kid - but we're perfect for us!

Ex-SO-BD: I do not love you anymore. You're 40 now. You look ridiculous trying to rock out with the boys. It cracks me up when you call hungover wanting me to cut you some slack and keep SS. Parenting is hard, isn't it? Grow up dipshit. That's why we're not together and it's why I wouldnt marry you. Worked out great for me. You still look great in your rocker pants and I'm fairly sure it was the Ouzo and Baklava that made a baby for us, but I'm all grown up now. You might try to do the same. Otherwise, you're ok. But I still don't love you and as long as you keep cool; we're gonna make it.

Horsehead: You're a whore. You're a nasty, filthy, bug infested whore. You're also a pathological liar. And your taste in clothing is craptastic. You're on the downward spiral. You think you're entitled to my life. You're not. I worked for it. You can't have it. NANANANANANANANANANANANANANA. How you like them apples, bitch? It's why we're not married and SO didn't sell his house. You can't touch me cunt. I'd rather live in a box in a hobotown than let you have one dollar of mine.

Ok I'll play along...

Dear BM,
I am sorry that you spent 11 years in a relationship with my DH, had 2 kids by him and yet he never married you. I am sorry that no one you call your friends has had the heart to tell you that platinum blonde hair on your skin tone makes you look 15 years older than you really are and that it looks really bad. I am sorry that you are unable to put a sentence together and that because of that your best job to date has been folding sweaters in the back of a high end retail store. I am sorry that your oldest son left you at the age of 16 because he finally was bold enough to walk out on your crazy and dysfunctional ass in search of a better life & a chance at a real future. AKA our home. I'm sorry that you live in a Housing development and that DH and I live in a beautiful home in the suburbs and that you feel somewhere deep in that cavernous head of yours that I am living the life that you feel should have been yours. Maybe, if you had actually gotten off your ass and gotten a job to work towards a common goal with him you could have had this instead of me. I am sorry that DH never introduced you to any of his friends, it's no wonder, you have such poor social skills which you have managed to pass onto your daughter and which I have slowly but surely weaned her off of. I am sorry that you have had to settle for the love of my in laws because you couldn't get the love of my DH. You can have my in laws, you are more on their level than I will ever be. I don't do well with ghetto, gossipy people. And last but not least I am sorry that you will never see this but happy I get to share it with my fellow steppies.

BM:
-STOP touching my car!!! FDH will pull the kids out and hand you the car-seat when we drop them off. There is no need for you to be all up in my shit, which I know you ONLY do when I'm there. Why??? [Sorry, HUGE pet peeve]
-Stop using your BF and his posse to try to intimidate us when we do you the FAVOR of picking up/dropping off the kids at your house. You know damn right well that DH isn't afraid of them, and how long do you think it will be before the kids REALIZE that you're trying to pit your BF against their dad for no reason? Seriously, this isn't gang warfare. Oh, but if it were I could take your bony ass.
-Are you really as shallow as you seem? That BF of yours is a super creeper. I know you could pull a better one than that (you're not ugly). Why are you with him? He's such a bad influence for the kids, and he's FUGLY!!! Is it really just because he's loaded and immature, allowing you to relive your missed youth? Cmon, this is the guy that was known for boning hookers in alleyways -- no condom, and you used to call him disgusting. Wtf.
-How about taking on some actual responsibility for once in your life? Have you ever even paid a bill with money that you worked for? I know it's not easy with the kids, but you really don't seem to even TRY.
-FSS is learning slowly for his age. Stop leaving him with the sitter/tv and READ to the kid every once in a while. Just because all the men you surround yourself with are illiterate roughnecks doesn't mean the only knowledge he needs is about tools and trucks.

DH:
-You're doing so well hun. Really, you're a good father. I wish there weren't so many obstacles, but we do our best. Seriously though, the system is in place to ream all those dead-beat losers out there who don't pay child support and don't even want to see their kids, not honest, hard-working people like you.
-I do wish that you were more forceful about getting your time with the kids (you should not have to share your time with Grandma), and that you could be forceful without going too far over the other edge. I also wish you participated more in their education, though I know it's difficult when they're not here on school nights.
-Pay the bitch with a check. Stop paying cash. You're killing me with this one. I will never marry you so long as you do this.

DH's Mom:
-I hope I never meet you. You are by far the worst piece of shit I have ever had the displeasure of hearing about. How DARE you do what you did to your children. You're not a mother. You're a whore without a spine, eyeballs, or a heart. There's a reason that FDH and his siblings refuse to talk or visit. Your husband gives all of us steps a bad name, but he wouldn't even be there if it weren't for you. You disgust me.

I would send the Behemoth and GG off to get sterilized so BOTH could never breed again as they are horrific free rangers.

Then I'd take away the two foster children and the three skids from the Behemoth and send them to Nanny 911 bootcamp.

I'd send the Behemoth and GG to traditional parenting boot camp and any deviation from this be it free ranging or PAS will result in all visitation and parental rights immediately terminated, with all five children (3 skids and 2 fosters) going out to traditionally parenting good homes.

The CS would then stop, the Behemoth would lose all her tax deductions and extra income.

One tiny step in righting the wrongs of the universe.

Dear JED,

You are not charmed; whoever told you that was a liar. You are a selfish, stupid, and a lazy parent. Who in their right mind spends almost two years obtaining medical certification only to decide it's her life long ambition to work at McDonalds? Oh right, you do because it's more important for you to be making a low wage to get as much as you can in CS from DH than it is for you to actually be making a good enough income to provide well for your son because of your own vendictiveness. I hope it feels really good to you right now, b/c you're in for a shock; your CS is about to be cut in half. Even when that does happen, I bet your stupid ass will stay at McDondalds; takes less brain power to pull the fries out of the oil when the timer goes off. And why, oh why, did it take you five years to potty train your son? Oh that's right, because it's easier to just lock him up in his room all day with a diaper on than it is to actually interact with him and teach him something. And, oh yeah, you're ugly. Seriously, seriously ugly. Don't beleive me? Shave your head and then look in the mirror one day. Try not to run away; that's actually your reflection and not a pig looking back at you.

Dear DH,

Pull your head out of your ass. Pretending the problem isn't there doesn't make it go away. You say you want to file to have CS modified, so why did it take you two months to even make the phone call to get an appt. at CS recovery? You are aware that the legal system and *any* governmental agency run like molases, right? You act like you want me to do it for you; I CAN'T! And STOP SPENDING MONEY! Yes, there may be a little left over from the budget, but do you *have* to spend it all? In one night, no less? Can't we save for a rainy day once in a while? And finally, you are not god. You may be sexy, but you make mistakes, are not always right, and have major weaknesses that could ultimately cost you your career if you don't get them in check.

Honestly, these are things my SO has heard before...lucky for me he's okay (now) with my (slightly) mouthy persona.

To BM Nasty- No one cares that you “never wanted children”! You should have thought about that before you popped out XSD15, & later (miraculously) SS & SD…not counting the 3 abortions in-between. You are a no-good whore who should have learned early…sex makes babies, babies equal responsibility, responsibility equals less time for whoring…oh wait, so glad you got it sorted out…you forget you have kids so you can continue on your whore way…thankfully you’re fixed now so no other children have to be born cursed with your deceitful, self centered, narcissistic genes! Oh…and one more thing, SO is no longer your pussy whipped lap dog. He has successfully grown a full set of balls complete with a back bone…I DARE YOU…ask him to give you back your child support payment now, bitch!

To BM Redneck-Dontcha think you could have noticed that you were a bull-dyke prior to marrying my SO years ago while you were preggo with a “daddy unknown”??? Please desist from telling your DD that she’s a whore who brought shame to your entire family…she’s only living by example after all…oh wait…with her we’re talking ONE boy, not 20 & there weren’t any girls thrown in there in-between. Hypocrite much? At least if she got knocked up she’d know who baby daddy is!

Not having too many issues with these but…
To resident Skids-No, I don’t think you’re too cute to get in trouble…in fact I’ve met FAR cuter & they didn’t get away with nearly as much as you do.

To teenage SD’s-Your reformed bull-dyke of a BM has messed you up something good. However, just because I’m with your daddy does not mean that I owe you shit! I don’t owe your BM shit! I do not, have never & will never answer to your BM so please stop acting like I should care less what she thinks about anything (don’t care what the topic is, just don’t care)! I don’t believe a word that comes out of your manipulative mouths so can you just not talk?

To SO-I am fairly open about what I think, thank you for humoring me. It took us awhile to get here…I LOVE how things are going…but by god, if it goes back to the old ways of BM ass kissing & Skids can do no wrong-ville, I will not be able to cope. I will no longer accept being second fiddle to bull-dyke & company. I will never again go without because poor BM Nasty needs money. I will not put up with being placed lower than either of your whorish ex wives for another second of MY life. I chose not to have children with trash, it isn’t my fault you weren’t as picky!

}:) BM-You are the fattest idiot i've ever had the displeasure of having to deal with. The fact that you trapped dh with two of the ugliest kids i've ever seen makes me sick! Fuck if he wants a dna test, I DO! There is no way those two came from him! He wanted an ugly girl so he wouldn't have to worry about you cheating....thanks for fucking up that theory.
Sd's-You two are the biggest brats. You think i'm not onto your "i'm so sweet and polite in front of daddy" act, WRONG! I know everything you say is a lie, you stole from me, and you are fat because bm is a disgrace to motherhood and feeds you from a trouth! Say it with me fatty's "SALAD". No you can not have a damn soda, try a fucking glass of water every now and then. Maybe your ass wouldn't be so wide!
Dh-CONDOMS....enough said! Oh wait, try telling your brats to keep their hands off of you, my things, my kids, the pets, and most of all the refridgerator door! They eat from sun up to sun down and you sit and ponder "why are they getting so fat" your 8yr old can wear my 13yr olds clothes, and your 5yr old can barely squeeze into my 10yr olds clothes! ATTENTION PLEASE.....PUT DOWN THE SNICKERS BAR, AND GRAB A CELERY STICK!

SMs!! LOVING this! You all are so funny & I'm having a great time reading the rants. So, as long as I'm here? I'll go there...
(I used to post in Craigslist in Rants & Raves cuz that's fun too!)
DH- After 8 years of being single and living the simple life; I was blessed to find love after all I've been through. I love you and even though I would rather be single? I'm going to dig my heels in and work through all our (YOUR) drama of the past.
As for your mother? Forgive her once & for all and get ON with your life. She's an old miserable lady who doesn't have the right answers to suit you even after 25 years of you telling the truth.
She won't change; but get even nastier and vile with time. I say make peace with the past? Get hypnotized to undo the damage or cease all contact with her. She's 3000 miles away. Quit being so passive/aggressive, grow a pair, reach down & grab a hold of them. MAN up, you pussy! The guilt you have for leaving BM is what it is.
Perhaps she lives in oblivion like an ostrich; but you're NOT married to the drunk whore anymore. I see your tattoos with her name & initials on your body cuz you say she is your sons' mother & was your best friend? Yeah right; the woman can't stand you no more than you can forgive her for f***ing male friends when she was drunk. Ick! That's nasty; but you were no better for what you did. No boundaries; forgive and forget..You are so spineless at times I just want to smack the CRAP out of you!
SS20? Guess what, Prince Sunshine? The jig is up; there's a new sheriff in town & guess who that IS? Let me smile sweetly, bat my eyelashes and curtsy for you. Word has it you're moving out West to live with "Daddy" & I? I am excited that you would want to ditch your lying, stealing, pot smoking, unemployed, non-motivated hypochondriac ways to a life of self sufficiency and be a productive citizen of the universe. Your Paternal GM can't even stand you. I'll give you the heads up, pretty boy: you steal from me & mine? I'm going to call my BS and have him beat the SHIT out of you. Then I'll call the police and have your sorry A$$ arrested. So come along & join the party; I'll be waiting for you!
BM? Look, I'm terribly sorry you're an alcoholic. Your parents love you & the boys so much that they did a dis-service to YOU.
For God's sake woman: wake up & smell the coffee! Put the bottle of beer down & get your A$$ in therapy. Drinking yourself blind is NOT the answer! You've got a 20YOS & he's a piece of shit! Once you decide you're not going to hide from the past and work through your demons? You'll be a happier person in whole. You'll love life & SEE that your 13YOS has a lot of f***ing traits and behaviors that indicate he is either AS or BP. So you don't want him on medication? Then find an answer, BITCH! You & DH are in the medical community & have all the networks to help your SON! He's been here with me for the last 6 weeks & he leaves tomorrow.
And who's going to take him to see a doctor? Thank you very much, BITCH. WHY you ask? Because I actually love your son & see there is definitely a problem with a 13 boy (who's got more pubic hair than I do)calling his father "DADDY!" REALLY? He repeats things over & over & over that I want to push a remote to mute his mouth.
Inappropriate language, sexual innuendo for a boy who has tantrums like a 7 year old? I don't think so! He cannot tolerate pain, EATS like a DOG/PIG who chews with his mouth wide open. He can eat 10 times the amount of food I consume in a day within a matter of minutes! It is DISGUSTING! He's morbidly obese according to his BMI & DH was trying to help him lose at least 10 lbs before he went home. Did HE? No, he gained another 10 lbs? The kid is barely 5'5" and weighs almost 200 lbs? Geez, lady..DH & I are trying to help this kid before he gets juvenile diabetes?
PLEASE read the godd***ed email I forwarded to DH about AS-help me help YOUR SON!
SS18-thank you for being damn near perfect. Your father & mother love you & your brothers so much that they forgot that they were the parents. God bless you for being "the man of the house" I will always support you & your endeavors. You're awesome & I'll do all that I can to see all of you boys succeed!
MIL? I have grown to have affection for you and respect you for all that you've experienced and endured in your LIFE. I understand your son is a coddled spoiled child and you two are not in a good place right now? I hope to God you aren't being as spiteful as your son says you are. I will intercept the mail to protect your grandson. I love you, but dammit woman! Quit being so spiteful! You appear to a hypocrite to your son and your grandsons don't even really know you. I'm trying to make it better; not worse...don't f*** this up, lady!

Woooooooh! You're right; I think I'm going to go out & have a cigarette...that felt really good!

ooooo what fun!

H: Your have failed as husband and father. your unsupportive and selfish. your blind to your own needs. you should grow a pair or get them back. stand up to your kids! tell your mother to butt out.
MIL: back off! stop your management of my damn house! stop filling the skids heads with viscous crap! you mean old nosy two faced B****!
BM: come back to texas! your f***ing coward. pay your time in jail, pay your child support and stop lieing out your ass because its making it bigger!be the mother your children need.Im paying for your b**** ass mistakes!!! realize that own it then learn from it stupid!!
sd:im the head b*** in this house. my rules follow them.this is my house. stop making your father feel like shit.stop so superficial and selfish. stop mothering my kids! stop overriding me!
ss: you are a coward.you need to be put in jail for the crap you done. stop being a bully. you do not get to yell, scream, destroy the house, run away,making your father feel like crap.your are the abuser in the house and you need to be put in your place which could be jail the way your heading.
Both skids: don't be selfish and demand your father get divorced you selfish brats!!!respect me damn it. i am adult and should be treated as such. do not disrespect me in my home or your will be grounded with no entertainment! you will accept these rules or you will be shipped off to boot camp!
Dead beat bio dad: where the hell are you so i can kick your ass! get a damn job. pay your child support.grow up and stop sponging off people. i hate you to no end for what you have done. you ignored two of the most unique special boys . thank god they are mentally disabled and dont even have a clue as to who you are. My h gets the honey of being called daddy and father not you sperm doner!you make me sick!in fact i hope you get hit by a bus. do the world a heck of a favor!

I wasn't sure if I was going to post, but after reading all these, I think I might feel better.

SD: I love you so much. You really are one of the cutesy kids I have ever met. Needless to say, the wining and being needy to daddy needs to stop. Do you not remember that I am the one who potty trained you to save your poor ass from being full of diaper rashes at your moms? Do you remember how many times I have taken you to the doctor and cuddled you telling you that the pain of your infection will eventually go away and that I wish there was more that me and the doctors could do for you after your mother made the infection worse time and time again? I'm sorry that I have have been so grumpy and that you have had to put up with it. Please remember that it is not your fault.

SD'sHS: you may be a cute kid but you are a pain in my fucking ass. I know that there is nothing you can do about it, you get it from your mom. I'm sorry, but until you mom grows up and starts raising you properly, you will not be aloud in my house. I will not be forced to put up with you being a bad example on my SD other than on your mom's weekends. I will not put up with your tantrums or bad mouthing me to the father that isn't your father.

BM: you are a dumbass bitch. Do you not realize that you have two beautiful daughters that want their mother to be their mother? Do you realized why we have SD full time? Do you realize why we only want you to have SD for one night at a time? Do you realize that the one night us still too much because you still fuck up her infection after one night? Just imagine if you had her for more! Is your personal hygiene really that bad that you cannot follow specific written instructions on how to handle your daughters infection that is controlled by proper hygiene? How about if you stopped moving around so much. 6 houses in 1 year is too much for any person let alone kids! And you wonder why I had to potty train your other daughter? It's no wonder she wouldn't catch on, she had absolutely no consistency. Getting off your fat ass would have helped her get potty trained though. How about hand washing their underwear when you don't bother to wipe properly sO that I will stop spending my hard earned money on buying them new panties every couple weeks? You are the worst mother I have met in my entire life. Just so you know, as soon as the divorce is over, I'm going to continue to pressure dh to get CS and a lawyer so that you only have supervises visits. It just too bad that dh is too scared to do that before the divorce is finalized and SD is legally ours!

Dh: I really do love you but the way it us going with BM and SD'sHS is pulling us apart. Btw, I wasn't actually sleeping last night when you came to bed, I just didn't want to talk. And my period has been done for a week not 2 days. For the last year, we have been trying to have a kid. Thank god that I have pcos and we've had bad timing. I didn't realized until recently that I don't want your next kid. I realize you don't like condoms but did you not realized that the dumb bitch want her first kid to have a good daddy? No wonder she "forgot" to take that pill. And even though she got pregnant, you didn't have to marry the dumb bitch! And thanks for sticking up for me to that bitch by the way. I loved how you got silent as she puts me down and says that the only reason I want SD to meet my family is to show off my 'perfect kid' since I can't have my own. And thanks for telling her that I can't have kids. I dont think you realized how seriouslypissed off you made me with that. And thanks for deciding to leave out info that she tells you since you don't see it as relevant. Like how I've been planning SD's birthday party for months and how she asked to have her for the same days? You are fucking lucky that you didn't agree for her to have her. But thanks for letting the bitch have her for every other holiday, of course, she doesn't need to spend them at home where she is actually loved? You are lucky that I don't have anywhere to go that isn't hours away and that I can't carry most of my shit out the door by myself or I would have been gone multiple times now. How I would love to tell you though that I have applied for jobs in the mountains. How I am planning on leaving as soon as I get the job offer and my best friend can come down from the city to help me get my shit to the moving trunk. I can't believe I quit my career for this! To take care of your child who you can't take care of on your own. Well, as soon as I'm gone you can start giving her guns again and allowing her to swear at 3. Once I'm gone, I dont give a damn. just you wait until she's older and you have wished you stuck by me a little more. I'm gonna go find myself a hot rig man who will actually take care of me. I'm gonna go pay off my debt instead of helping you out of yours. Hopefully paying off your ex's parents goes good for you on one salary. Hopefully you actually get around to getting your kid into kindergarten because she is smart enough. And I'm not taking your lazy ass cat with me. Sure I'm the one who wanted a second one so that mine would have company but I didn't want a Garfield cat who only sleeps and won't even play with mine. Mine already has her new home in the mountains where I'll see her every week and get her back when I move on.

MIL/SFIL: it is not funny to allow your 4yo to swear. You are one of the reasons I am leaving. I don't want my future kids to have to spend time with you. Allowing your kids to hurt your grandkid is horrible. Maybe try some disciple? It might be good for him. I don't want to deal with any of your gossiping anymore. Do you not realize that is one of the big reasons that you don't see your other grand kids? You made your other DIL out o sound so bad but she wanted you to be a part of their family, it's just too bad that you dukes that up. I almost believed you about her, but guess what? I've talked to her and gotten to know her. She's a really nice woman and is a wonderful mom. You could learn something from her.

I agree with now going for a smoke. That felt sooooooo good! Then I guess it's time for SD's bath and bed. Thanks!!!!

To BM 

You're nothing more than a money grabbing whore. You used and abused my husband, and got yourself pregnant to trap him and create an 18 year meal ticket. Take your brat and fuck off. I'll never forgive you for wishing my babies dead. I can never not hate you for the foul treatment you subjected my husband to. You foul, irredeemable bitch. I feel sorry for your partner, because I know she's in for the same treatment as all your exes. All your relationships have followed the same cycle. You're a selfish user, a parasite and a fat mess. You're just "trying out" women. You're not actually gay and you're just using that poor woman. You just suddenly turned out gay when you'd cheated on another boyfriend, he chucked you out, and your friend was there to pick up the pieces and put you up for a while. You had nowhere else to go, and suddenly you're in a relationship with her?! You parasite! I never want to see you or hear your name again. Next time you insult my son I'll kick you so hard in the cunt you'll never be able to curse this world with another one of your spawns. Stop using that brat of yours as yet another way of abusing my husband, even long after he finally had the courage to throw you out. 

To SD

You nasty little brat. You used to be a lovely child. Trying at times, but mostly good. As you've got older it's become a different story. You are turning into such a horrible person and I hate how you and your bitch mother hurt DH every day. You are a copy of that woman. I prayed for so long that it was environmental or learned behaviour, but it isn't; it's just who you are. Where you and your mother are concerned, the apple plopped straight down. I don't want my son growing up around you. I'm sick of my family and I being victimised by your presence. Why don't you do us all a favour and just piss off. The only reason we live here (away from our family) is so DH can have a hand in attempting to raise your evil, feral arse into being a vaguely functional adult. All we get for it is abuse and misery. Just piss off to your mother's and don't come back. You are the result of a relationship that should never have happened. An out of the frying pan situation where my husband went from a horrendously abusive marriage, into another relationship, that at the time, seemed good in comparison. Turned out to be just as bad. At least he didn't breed with the other one. Unfortunately he bred with your mother. I see you becoming a worthless, lazy, unqualified parasite just like your mother is. You're already on that road. You foul, awful child. And that's coming  from someone who loves children. You come into my home, you obey the rules. That's all I ask. Yet I get treated like an evil SM for raising you by the same rules I'm raising my own child to. You're nothing special. Follow the rules like everyone else.

To DH

I know it's hard for you. You see your daughter turning into a piece of shit. The child you had so much hope for, and who up until the age of 4, was a nice kid. But seriously, you've gotta wake up and smell the coffee. Admit to what she is, because you're tearing yourself up trying to change her, and it's not possible. Stop lamenting the person you thought she was going to be; that person doesn't exist. And stop making me and our son victims in this. You know she doesn't like our son, and you know I can't stand her. Even you don't like being around her anymore. Stop bringing her to our home. Take her out for the day or something. Stop forcing me to spend my weekends with ex-wife's mini-me. And for the love of God, discipline her more! I know she manipulates by saying she doesn't want to come here, but the more permissive you are, the worse she gets. God knows why you bred with that woman. If you'd have left her when even you said you should have done, you never would have even married her, let alone had a kid! You let that bitch grind you down, manipulate and isolate you. I would have thought after what your 2nd wife put you through, you would have spotted the signs. Maybe you had so little self worth left, you thought that's all you deserved. Then to top all that off, she trapped you with a child. Please don't let that brat and your ex drive us apart. Because if you don't stand up to that bitch soon, they will.