An epiphany on CS - Gotta love it when CS covers your half of visitation travel, legal fees for fighting the opposition as well as the occasional vacation, nice dinner for the spouse and a shopping trip or two.

I am married to the CP bio-mom to my Skid. His SpermIdiot is just that, an idiot.

Early on CS was a pittance but enough to cover our half of CO'd travel costs. In our CO each party was responsible for getting the kid to their location. We have never lived w/in 1200 miles of SpermLand so their visitation was always accessed by air travel and we got the kid back the same way. Gotta love that they paid for our half of visitation travel.

I was recently given clarity that as CS went up due to modification over the years it became more than enough to cover our visitation travel costs and reimburse us for our legal fees in protecting our son's best interests against his toothless moron SpermClan to the point that when they initiated action they were actually paying for their attorney and ours. Gotta love that. Even if we intitated the legal action, they were paying for it. Talk about poetic justice.

And it gets better. I ran the numbers. CS paid for all of our travel costs for visitation, all of our attorney and court fees, a few family vacations to SpermLand when we incorporated visitation drop off or pick up at either end of a vacation to SpermLand. My ILs live near by. Awesome!

Now it gets really good. Not only did the 17yrs of CS that we nailed them for pay for our half CO'd visitation travel expenses, all of our blended family opposition related legal costs, a few vacations, several dinner and shopping trips .... it also paid for the brand new car that we purchased for our kid last Christmas after he had aged out from under the CO. All while they bitched about how unfair it was that they had to pay CS on our son when we never needed a dime of their money. We never did need the CS. We just used it as leverage to control their vitriolic crap.

Of course we have never shared this with the kid or with them. They have never purchased a brand new car for themselves much less for anyone else. They gave the kid crap when his mom and I bought him one though. How much fun would it be to inform them that the math shows that THEY paid for our Christmas gift to our son? Lol! }:)

All of these things combined is just about exactly what they paid us in CS over the years.

Isn't poetic justice wonderful? That is what the whole SpermClan gets for not cutting the nuts off of the SpermIdiot before he spawned 4 OOWL kids by 3 different baby mamas. Of course if they had castrated him before number 2-4 were born they still would have bitched but at least no more kids would have suffered by having been born to that shallow and polluted gene pool. the youngest three do not have the advantage of having my wife as their mother and me as their father. Those three are stuck with the SpermIdiot, two skank ho's for mothers and the vitriolic control freak SpermGrandMa as their parental role models. Sad, sad, sad.

What a great day it is. In fact, retroactively every day for the past 17yrs has just been confirmed as great. As big of a PITA as the SpermClan has been, it warms my soul to come to the realization that they paid all of the costs to fight their toxic bull shit as well as for a few nice perks over the years.

I may be ready to close the SpermClan chapter of my life. The kid is past their influence and well on his way to his own successful life. At 18 he is far more successful than anyone in his SpermClan. He is far more educated and is self supporting. Something that his 41yo SPermIdiot who lives in a home owned by his parents rent free, who drives hand me down beaters given to him by SpermGrandMa and SpermGrandPa, who had to have the SpermGrandParents pay his CS on #1 and #2 and have them raise #3 and #4 in their home because he is too big of a looser to live up to his obligations as a man.

You really do have to love it.

Ahhhhhhhhh!!! Time to go have the first drink I have paid for out of my own pocket in nearly two decades. I have a feeling that this one will be just as sweet as the 17yrs of drinks that they have paid for probably even better with my new epiphany at the forefront of my mind.