So SO decides to have 4th party, prep for hours, cook, clean the entire nine yards. Mostly all that show up are men. I have to deal with guns in my living room--my stepmom shot my dad so guns in the living room not my idea of fun.

Then that stops to the lovely SS showing up, walks in past me never says hello, plugs in his phone, opens the refrig takes a beer offers everyone one, doesn't offer me one, and he is not old enough to drink.

Well I've had enough and I left, I went and sat under an overpass near my house and called a friend. She came and got me and we went to another party.

I still can't believe I left my own house and my own eats and up and left. I feel bad because guests I like showed up late and I missed them. But I had promised myself that if either of his kids were disrespectful to me in my house I wasn't taking it anymore.

Boy I think he may have gotten the point, and it was hard keeping the fight that happened after I got back to the subject. No one disrespects me in my own home. And who plugs in their cell phone at someone else's house? Just curious.

Advice??