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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Tue, 03/01/2011 - 2:03pm

I found out yesterday that I was approved for an apartment and there will be one available in around 2 weeks. BF is still in Florida so when we had our morning call I told him that I would be out before next month.

His statement was, "Scary..."

Me thinks that maybe he is realizing what he is up against. My friends have been saying that I will end up making dinners for them after I move out.

I think not.

He wants me to leave so we have a more peaceful relationship, well for me to have that, I need to no longer be responsible for his kids. I will HELP OUT. But don't expect me to keep up with their schedules.

I actually think I am more ok with this than he is now. He will probably not ask me to stay, but it would not surprise me if he wants 'special treatment' still.

I am excited about having my own place with my girls. I can have MY rules. There won't be any of "why does she get to do that Mommy?"

He is still the love of my life. I plan on keeping him around for a while. However... if someone asks me to dinner... I think I will accept. Blum 3

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Tue, 03/01/2011 - 2:51pm

I am so happy for you!!! You will be so happy with this decision. I love my SO also but I am not his kids mom and never will be and don't want to be. I have my house, he stays with me when he doesn't have the kids, when he has his kids they go back to his house.

Our relationship is wonderful, when we have issues it's either the EX or his kids. He immediately addresses the kids issues which I am very thankful for. The ex however is un-repairable she is dumber than a bag of hair!

Good luck have fun and enjoy your new place. It is like having your cake and eating it to! It really is the best way to be with someone who has kids. The drams is less.

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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Wed, 03/02/2011 - 11:49am

You all are so right. Just today, he called me this morning when he knew I would be getting ready for work. BD11 came down sick this morn so I stayed home. But you all see he called me.... I was suppose to call HIM. Then, I was busy so I told him I would call him later.... well, I went back to my reading... LOL

He just called, "You hadn't called back so I thought I would call YOU!" LMAO Oh, this is gonna be a fun ride making him beg!

I will look up Pantera and October8 and read some.

I don't expect perfect, and I even have a thought that it might end up ending. But hey, what ever gets me through today helps!

Thanks guys!