I have hadit w/all the bs-" oh poor me feel for me" over dramatized crap that we have to deal w/pretaining to my SSs (14&9). It's been 5 yrs. now I have been here through so flippin' much: boo boos, bad dreams,hurt feelings,good grades,poor grades,friends,foes,girl drama,school functions,life lessons. Speaking of,when we 1st met these 2 kids were something else! drew all over walls,broke windows,soda after soda after soda,broke dvd disks,ate fastfood daily(of course being looked after by grandma had a lot to d with that RIP) Now thier diets are regular,we have family dinners EVERY NIGHT! we have structure and enforce respect and responsibilities. I have just read a post on my SS's FB page via his BM and the stupid cunt is complaining about her kids worrying about making sure they bring back,what they take with them! Is she serious? She is complaining because we are teaching her kids to be responsible and making the oldest help to ensure huis little brother is responsible too?
God, she sickens me to the core. she acts like the kids are being abused because they are worried about consequenses of NOT being responsible for their belongings.!
Whenever her visits 1st started we had to have it put in court papersw that she make sure the kids' belongings were returned home with them. there were times she wouldn't reeturn clothes,socks ect.. and after so much it is hard to constantly replace these things,since the kids live w/us and were n need of school clothes they have play clothes and school clothes no big deal, but NO. poor babybitch bm says the kids are abused because they worry. Well, ya-dumb bitch help us to teach them to be responsible dammmn it. Seriously Y would a parent think this to be bad? She needs to get over herself like 3yrs ago! Her kids ARE NOT ABUSED-they should be at times LOL but they are not! She is the one that needs abused! I'd like to watch! I cannot stand how angry I get over her all because I refuse to sit back and watch her kids be partly raised without no boundries,morals,respect, or responsibility all be dammed if I am gonna sit back and watch that happen,knowing these kids are going to be OUR FUTURE! forget that nonsence NOT ON MY TIME! call me captain Save a Ho,cuz I 'm saving her kid for her!Them kids WOULD NOT be who they are and manage the way they do without me...Lord knows she didn't do it.
One time stupid bitch tore up and threw away handwritten practice exercises for handwriting and school. their dad and I decided they both needed extra practice,I made sheets,she threw them out in front of the boys and sent a note saying,"you will not tell me how to spend my time with the kids" so, I had the boys write sentences: "I will not tear up my homework" "tearing up my homework is wrong" this was a while ago, but since they do their work-AND THERE"S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. I read on this site yesturday said somethinglike excuses don't make good adults expectations do. I love that one. Call me what you will, but I am getting the job done. If either of these kids are gonna be doctors they can get right back on track with their chicken scratch until then they will write so we can read......
Until then the stupid bitch can get over her self made pitty party over her kids that she decided she was not good enough for in the first place!
-feels better tx