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WTH! You all are not going to belive what happened this morning!

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Submitted by cookie29 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 8:18am

So I get up this morning and as I entered the washroom, guess what I see laying on the washroom floor? My SD left her babies used pamper (opened) on the washroom floor, along with her babies T-Shirt and the babies tub filled with water! Now who does that? Talking about unsanitary! I was furious! I quickly emailed my husband! I also took a picture with my cell phone just in case he didn't believe me and forwarded that along with my email! I am at my wits end with this situation! Why is it so hard for you to clean up after your baby? I truly believe she's trying to make my life a lving hell! So the question is, do you all think I was wrong and what would've you all had done in my situation?

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cookie29's picture

Submitted by cookie29 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 9:39am

I totally agree! I can't take it anymore, and my dear husband says absolutely nothing! Get your own place and then you can live however, you like!

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Submitted by Asher10 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 8:24am

I would have blew my top.I wouldn't have been able to just email my husband.A phone call would have been the only thing I could do as I'd be shaking with anger and unable to type.
Who leaves a dirty diaper lying on the floor?The other stuff is a little less irritating because I can see how easy it would be to forget about it once you get absorbed in trying to get the baby dried off and dressed and whatever.But the diaper?NO WAY.You take that off and carry little naked baby with you to the trash to toss the soiled diaper.I would be all in her face when she gets home.

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Submitted by cookie29 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 9:43am

Trust me, I wanted to do more than email hubby, as I wanted to throw her and her baby out of the house! Who lives like this? Why is it so hard to clean up after your baby? Sorry, but you created this situation, not "US", now step up and take care of your responsibilites and stop being so freakin lazy! Geez!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by stepsonhatesme on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 8:24am

I would've picked all of it up an deposited on her bed......and if it made a mess. OH F----ING WELL!!

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Submitted by cookie29 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 9:47am

I wanted to do more than that! What were you so busy doing that you couldn't through away the dirty pamper? I just don't understand! Dang, you're living & eating for free, at least you can clean up after yourself (incl your baby).

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Submitted by ddakan on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 8:25am

I can see a young mother doing this. She probably didn't do it to irritate you, but it's annoying fer shure!

I know...who does that? I was overwhelmed at 26 having a baby and all the new stuff to learn. I liked my house being clean.

I can't imagine being a teenager living in someone else's house.....ew...I guess it isn't her house, so she doesn't really care about who cleans it.

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Submitted by cookie29 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 9:50am

Sorry, young mother or not, you know a dirty pamper should not be left on the floor. I'm overwhelmed everyday, but I clean up after myself. If you want to live in filthy conditions, then it't time for you to get your own place of residence, where you pay all the bills!

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Submitted by RaeRae on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 10:05am

No excuse for what she did. When I was 26, I had been married for 8 years, had 4 kids, and was planning my escape (with my kids) from exh. I was not a perfect mother at 18, but I knew damn well not to leave nasty diapers and other baby mess behind in my own home, let alone someone else's!

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Submitted by stepsonhatesme on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 8:25am

I would've picked all of it up an deposited on her bed......and if it made a mess. OH F----ING WELL!!

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Submitted by dguiwh2334 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 8:29am

Yea I too would have put the dirty diaper on her bed.. And if she didn't like it I would have said " well you thought I was clean enough to leave on the floor, so I figured it was clean enough to leave on your bed.. So from now on, don't leave dirty diapers on my floor unless you want them in your bed." I bet that will help her remember.

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Submitted by mommylove on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 9:03am

find her and apt and move her and grandskid out asap .. .. yep pay the rent and the deposit but yanno .. maybe she will take pride in "HER HOME" if not its on her ..

I agree with this. I'm sorry, but I told H in no uncertain terms that NO kids (even my own bios) for ANY reason be living in my house after they turned 18 unless they were in college full-time AND working full-time AND they would still have to follow the same rules that applied when they were under 18 (i.e. no guests in my home without permission, no coming in and out of my house at all hours - either STAY where you are or come home at a reasonable hour, no drinking unless you're over 21, no drugs ever, no babies - if you're 'mature' enough to make a baby your should be 'mature' enough to obtain and maintain your OWN household, you WILL still be expected to contribute to this family and household by doing chores, being respectful, etc. The list goes on.)

Of course I said this because 1) I KNEW SS was NOT college bound - so that was an immediate ticket to someplace else a 'barely graduated' gift, and 2) I KNEW SS would NOT want to live by all of those rules, so just like I suspected, he left IMMEDIATELY after he turned 18! LOL!

Now this didn't mean that H couldn't help SS out living somewhere else, only that I wasn't going to support SS being in MY home anymore!

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Submitted by cookie29 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 9:54am

I wish we could find her more than just an apartment! She needs parenting and maid classes. One to teach her how to take care of her baby and the other to teach her how to thoroughly clean!

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Submitted by now4teens on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 8:43am

I'm an "old-timer" on this site, but have not commented for quite some time (Hi, Crayon!) But I saw this and needed to chime in.

This "woman" is a pig. That's disgusting, plain and simple. If she's old enough to have ababy, she's old enough to clean up after herself. Enough with the excuses.

I was a young mom, too. At 23 I had my first child, who had Down Syndrome- that's A LOT for a mom to handle at 23. But I certainly didn't go around leaving disgusting messes like this. She needs to GROW UP and take responsibility for herself. And your DH needs to NOT make excuses for her!

My three SDs are complete slobs. YSD15 leaves used sanitary pads (unwrapped) all over her bedroom and bathroom. if I see this, I move them to "secret" places in her room (drawers, closets, etc) because I'm tired of telling her to dispose of them properly. I let HER find them eventually in time! If she wants to live like a pig- BRING IT ON!

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Submitted by dguiwh2334 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 8:54am

Echo, that makes good sense.. And now4teens, my younger (step) sister lived with me for a few months at one time, she was 18 and left unwrapped sanitary pads laying around, and unwrapped tampons in the bathroom garbage GROSS, it was absolutly disgusting, she was raised as a slob by her mom and obviously always will be.. Which I'm sure is the same for OP's sd

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Submitted by cookie29 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 9:53am

Bottom line, when you're living with someone and you're not paying one bill, eating their food, using their electricity, hot water, etc., then you should be respectful of their home! Meaning cleaning up after you and your child, and doing extra chores around the home!