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Hubby & I are separating....

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Submitted by cookie29 on Sun, 03/25/2012 - 3:35pm

However, we're still living under the same roof until I find a place for my teens & I. He's living in the basement and I upstairs. Just when you think things are getting better, something always happens and I'm fed up! He believes its ok for his 21 year old daughter and 1 1/2 yr old granddaughter can continue to live with us for free. Free food, cable, hot water, electricity and laundry, and she doesn't do any chores, including cleaning her room, which should be aired on the world's dirtest bedroom.

Hubby finally had the balls......

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Submitted by cookie29 on Fri, 02/03/2012 - 2:13pm

Ok,so my husband finally had the balls to tell his daughter(21)that she needs to start buying food for her and her daughter (1 1/2 yrs) and cooking for her daughter,and stop waiting on me to cook, etc. She is totally pissed! But it's only right, as we don't charge her for rent, cable, utilities and up to this point for groceries. I don't know why kids feel like they are entitled and parents are obligated!

In need of a Second Pair of Ears

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Submitted by cookie29 on Wed, 08/03/2011 - 3:20pm

So my hubby had his son (my SS) over the weekend. He comes every other weekend. On Sunday, my husband took him home, and on Monday around 3 pm, my SS calls my husband asking if he could come back over for the week. Hubby called me after his conversation with his son, and asked me would it be ok. So my questions, to my husband was 1) why didn't he tell you that he wanted to stay on Sunday, before you drove him home? 2)Where's his mother? and 3)How long will he be staying?

Really Pissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by cookie29 on Tue, 07/05/2011 - 10:27pm

So I recently found out that my husband's daughter (20) who lives with us with her baby is receiving assistance from the State. She receives $193 in link (food stamps). The baby will be 10 months old at the end of this month. So I had spoken with my husband about her donating a little towards food, as she eats and her baby eats more table food now. He had the nerve to tell me that the link that she's receiving is for her and her baby. WTF!!!!

In Need of Some Advice.......

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Submitted by cookie29 on Tue, 06/28/2011 - 10:59pm

I need some feedback on how to handle my husband receiving a birthday invite from my SDs20 friend to her dad's 50th bday celebration (the invitation was addressed to only my DH)....First and foremost, I think it's totally disrecpectful, as he is married, and whether or not I want to attend would be totally up to me, secondly, my husband isn't friends with my SDs friend dad, as they've only met once, and that was in 2008. How would you handle approach a situation as such?

IS IT JUST ME, OR WHAT?

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Submitted by cookie29 on Fri, 02/18/2011 - 11:40am

OK, MY SD AND HER BABY MOVED IN WITH US, SHE'S 20. SHE DOESN'T PAY RENT, BUY FOOD, NOTHING! OVER THE PAST COUPLE OF WEEKS, I'VE NOTICED HER LEAVING HER TV/CLOSET LIGHT ON ALL NIGHT, WHILE SHE'S ASLEEP, SO I TALKED TO DH, AND EXPLAINED TO HIM MY FRUSTRATIONS AND HE SAID YOU TELL HER ABOUT IT, AND I'LL SUPPORT YOU 110%. WELL, WASN'T I WRONG. OUR ELECTRIC BILL IS OVER $200/MO. SO I KINDLY LEFT A NOTE ON HER DOOR, ASKING HER TO PLEASE BE SURE TO TURN OFF HER COMPUTER, LIGHT & TV WHEN IT IS NOT IN USE, ESPECIALLY AT BEDTIME.

WTH! You all are not going to belive what happened this morning!

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Submitted by cookie29 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 8:18am

So I get up this morning and as I entered the washroom, guess what I see laying on the washroom floor? My SD left her babies used pamper (opened) on the washroom floor, along with her babies T-Shirt and the babies tub filled with water! Now who does that? Talking about unsanitary! I was furious! I quickly emailed my husband! I also took a picture with my cell phone just in case he didn't believe me and forwarded that along with my email! I am at my wits end with this situation! Why is it so hard for you to clean up after your baby?