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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 5:37pm

It may sound abit bossy but it must be my turn to boss him around by now, right? BM and SD have already had their turns. Today I told DH that from now on when BM calls and screams at him I am going to hang up the phone, he can no longer take her abuse in front of me and the kids. It's too hard to watch and lets the children see what a pu55y he is. She can call and abuse him when he is at work but it will no longer happen in front of us. Also when dinner is about to come out of the oven and SD demands to go home she will have two choices. 1) wait until we eat or 2) call BM and have her come get her. DH will no longer leave us sitting down to eat while he's rushing out the door to drive SD home. Thankfully this weekend I'm not working and I think I will just take the batteries right out of the phone Smile Of course SD probably isn't coming anyway but we won't know for sure until Saturday. Thankfully, this is annonymous because I have to say that lately when I look at DH I am throughly disgusted by his lack of balls. It makes me almost want to leave him, what kind of man would take abuse from a no-good ugly bitch like BM? I really don't get it.

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 5:49pm

Oh, SD treats him like crap too. One night she keep calling him names and saying how much she hated us. I said "ok SD that's enough" after about 2 hours of it. DH said "oh, she can talk to me however she wants". That is when I got angry. I said "Not in front of my children she isn't, there will be no more of that foolishness in front of DD2, she'll be talking to you like that soon".
I love how this makes me a bitch, hated by SD and BM and frowned at by my husband. Get a life people, SD is turning into a horrible person just like BM and I'm not taking crap in my own house!

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Submitted by simifan on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 6:07pm

DH used to leave his balls in BM pocket cause he thought he had no choice. Once I got annoyed and hung up on BM & unplugged the phone. He was really shocked the world (& his court ordered visitation)didn't end & Hey BM learned pretty quickly, I yell i get hung up on. Pavlov's doggie ya know }:)

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 6:15pm

Yep right after dh and I got married he was arguing with her about visitation and it went on and on adn on. I got tired of it form both of them and took the phone and said "he will there at this time to pick them up and if they are not there he will file contempt" I hung up. I looked at dh and said "that is how it is done"

Bm called back after an hour and she said they would be there. When dh picked them up they were there. Then of course she HAD to call all the time and grip about something. I told dh "do you want me to take the phone?" He said no and stood up to her. All I had to do was say that. LOL

Some times it takes them seeing it for themselves that they will see results if they just stand up to them.