My fiance has a friend, I'll call him Jake. They have known each other for years although they don't hang out very much anymore (about 3 times a year they go to the casino together, about once every other month or so we meet up with Jake for dinner/lunch). Jake was one of the people DF was considering to be a groomsman in our wedding, then decided not to. Although I like him, he has this nervous energy when I'm around. I asked DF if he's always like that, and DF told me "kind of"...then he said he just gets nervous around girls sometimes unless he's drinking. Okay...so whatever.

Jake is one of those people who is on his iPhone ALL DAY -- specifically, on Facebook all day. He constantly comments on people's pictures and stuff, although rarely on anything of ours. He's a single guy so he mostly comments on pretty girls' statuses and photos.

Yesterday I pull up Facebook and the first thing that shows up on the home page is a picture of BM. I realized I was logged into DF's. DF is NOT friends with BM on Facebook, she's just got absolutely no privacy settings so if a mutual friend of theirs posts something on her page it shows up. Then I saw Jake's comment on her photo, which said, "You are soooooo ridiculously pretty, BM " Then I click onto her page, and he's "liked" EVERY comment of hers and EVERY photo of hers for the last two months or so...plus commented a bunch on stuff. I know it's stupid...but it really bothers me that he's supposedly friends with my fiance but he is all over BM's facebook page...even going so far as to compliment her often. I feel like if he knew that DF could see those things he probably wouldn't do it, but that makes it even more shady.

So Jake is a whore and wants a ride on the BM train. Whatever...he can obviously do whatever he wants. It just feels like he's backstabbing us, especially because he knows all the crap that went down with DF and BM, has spoken to DF about how crappy of a mother she is and that she's ALWAYS at the bar all skanked-up, and he has NEVER been "friends" with BM before the last few months (BM couldn't even stand him).

I think next time we see him I'm going to casually bring it up and be like, "Oh, so I hear you're applying to be next in line to be BM's f-buddy?" and see what he says Any other good lines we could use? }:)