Sundays Suck!
I'm really starting to hate Sunday nights when the SS11 comes home. BM started stuff again. She wants SS11 the whole time he's on xmas break. This pissed of my H. I was stupid and opened my mouth about it. If you remember I swore to disengage. I asked what SS11 wanted. That started WWIII! I was only trying to help.
Now xmas has been turned upside down and our plans have to be completly changed! Also I thought H and I were going out New Years Eve but now all the kids are going to be here!
Oh and to top the weekend off H told me he doesn't want to try to have a baby anymore! I know its probably not the best time but I'm 35 this may be my only time. I mean I'm already taking fertility drugs if I wait a couple of years it probably won't happen no matter what we try.
This sucks! I love my H so much but I can't stand all this arguing about who gets the kids and when!
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No CO I take it?
No CO I take it?
Oh yes there is. But neither
Oh yes there is. But neither one of them go by it so they argue about visitation all the time. And it's very detailed about who gets which kids when and for what holidays. Of course BM would rather ship the girls to us so that she can have holidays to herself including Mother's Day!
go by the ordered schedule.
go by the ordered schedule. that's what my dh and ex wife HAVE to do or she'd never give him any time of day for visitation...dont' ask what the kids want, don't ask questions, police can enforce what's ordered and you can threaten contempt charges if it's not followed.
if you do deiviate, get it in WRITING and e-mail, texting, some form of proof to back you up later
Well xmas should be split and
Well xmas should be split and from my exsperience it usually is split in the CO...so go by that. Dont let her have the entire break....your DH deserves some xmas time with skid to...but dont keep the child from her the entire break either....do exactly what the CO says and people may not be happy but it is settled and it is much more fair this way.