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I recently got engaged and my DF called his XW to tell her after he told the kids. At the time she congratulated him and asked if he told the kids and she wanted to know what they said. That was the end of the call. We were really happy because family members predicted that she would be upset.

So apparently that wasn't the end. She called again to talk and tell him that she did not feel that he should be marrying me. She said that she always thought she would be his only wife and she doesn't think he should be doing this. She claims that even though he has been mean to her recently (meaning actually wanting her to take care of the children when she's supposed to), she still loves him. He said he asked her what was the point of the call...and she said she just wanted to tell him her feelings.

I am amazed at this. I know she blames me for all her current problems because when I came along I stopped all the mooching and helped him file for CS. She's told our family therapist that she's jealous of me and blames me for her and DF not getting along anymore aka being to walk all over him and get over on him and the kids.

How embarassing. Wouldn't pride keep you from making a call like that? They don't get along at all and the only time they talk is when it concerns the kids or when she needs to try and convince him to agree to some scam that gets her out of paying child support. They were married for less than a year and he had to trick her to get the divorce because she wouldn't sign the papers. He had to tell her that they will get the divorce now, work on their problems, and then get married later. That was well over six or seven years ago and me and DF have been together for over 3 years. Oh yeah and now she's gay and only dates women.