Hehehehe! Life is good....
Hello everyone! Thought I would share something funny...since I've been laughing since 7:43am!!!
As you know BM has tormented DH and I with text messages from 6:30am until the cows come home for several months. We cleverly put a sudden end to it all one morning at 6:05am by simply adding AT&T smart limits to DH number. Prior to doing this we sent a text from DH phone to BM stating that she should no longer text him because he will only reply to EMAIL and he included a new gmail address we specifically set up for communication with narcissist BM.
As you may recall, I told BM a month ago via text to never contact me again because I will consider it harassment and she stopped. Needless to say, it's been peaceful and "normal" here in zenland with DH and I talking about us and not consumed with BM voice messages and text messages. It's been great and last night we celebrated our freedom! One whole week without conflict!!! Imagine that?!
Ooooooh nooooooo! We jinked it!!! BM apparently has been trying to contact DH because this morning she texted me!!! lol I have to laugh out loud for I consider this woman to be a complete idiot! This is BM text...
Exhusbands phone is shut off for days now! need to coordinate pick up tomorrow there is no school! Pick up will be at my house... I will send their Halloween costumes! Sorry to bother you but I have no other way to communicate about the Kidd! Thanks BM
My zen reply...
The AT&T subscriber you are trying to reach is not available at this time
(laughing loudly out loud!!!)
Now...let's address BM stupid text!!!
1) DH and I have calendars!!! We have our personal daily planner, we have a school calendar, and within these calendars we have the details of our kids schedules (his kids mine is an adult living away).
2) we have been and are aware that kids don't have school tomorrow since about AUGUST.
3) we realized since the kids dint have school they would not be at aftercare, instead at BM home. Therefore, our plan was for me to pick them up there which is the obvious choice since it clearly states that in the CO. Duh!!!
4) we discussed with the kids Holloween plans two weeks ago. We asked them if they wanted to buy outfits they said they already had bought some with Biograndma. Ok, then make sure to bring them we said. They said "ok"!
BM acts let we are incapable of functioning without her instructions!! These texts are every other week. To confirm what DH and I have already been doing for 26 weeks out of every year without fail!!! It's such a waste of time.
I just found it humorous this morning for whatever reason. I feel I got one up on BM.
Yes, I am wicked!!!
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lmao that is great! ugh I
Can you say control freak??
Can you say control freak?? OMG that is our BM, gotta send 20 bazillion texts, phone calls etc. because apparentely she thinks we are as dumb as she looks... ugh!
Good for you for standing
Good for you for standing your ground with BM. I love how everything is such an emergency when it strikes the BM, but has no concept that there are people out there that know how to plan and use a calendar. Simply amazing.
OMG!!! WTH?!?! BM has
OMG!!! WTH?!?! BM has contacted my DH work friend (not really a friend) again! DH just told me that BM called this "friend" i will call Hugo. Hugo told DH this morning that BM called him asking him to tell DH that he needs to call her.
Hugo then told my DH that "you need to tell Zen she needs to call BM and tell her to stop calling me."
I said to DH, no you need to tell Hugo that if he doesn't want her to call Hugo he should tell BM such". And that you don't want to know anymore when BM does call him. Basically, don't ask don't tell!!!
DH said...it's hard to know if i should believe or trust Hugo because about 8 months ago he was telling me BM was calling him to hang out. Hugo said he didn't but I think he did. Hugo told me he went over to BM but wouldn't tell me anything else.
I said is that when he slept with her. DH said, how do you know that? I said he told me right here in the dinning room that day Hugo was here. Don't you remember him saying that?! You were standing right there.
I told DH of course you shouldnt trust Hugo is a lair and a cheater, he can't be trusted especially since he went down BM crazy candy lane.
Plot thickens...
Yes, BM and her (non)
Yes, BM and her (non) emergencies!!!
DH and I are not big text people. When I reviewed the data potion of our plan, BM was texting DH more than we were texting anyone combined. And we were paying $60 a month for nonsense. We changed to the 200 plan for 5$ each and added the smart limits. Saving ourselves money as well as our sanity...priceless.
BM acts like she has no mode of communication with DH except she does -- email. It may not be her favorite but it is what it is.
WOW I can't believe any1 is
WOW I can't believe any1 is that stupid...But I live ur reply to the txt that's great....
*love
*love
Yeah! BM doesnt contact DH
Yeah! BM doesnt contact DH regarding anything about the court order though she once said "she read it hard". What does that mean?! It was hard to read?! Or was she saying she actually sat down and read it word for word?! Even with that "hard" reading she still doesn't follow an effin word of it.
BM is so out of control she has now contacted his work again!!! She is out of control because she has no control.
I'm loving it!!!
Our bm used to do this
Our bm used to do this too-eow she would begin calling about the schedule. Um, the schedule was always the same-we had court ordered times. It would be one thing if she called to say, Hey I can't make it-but, no just things like -just needed to let you know that I will be there friday night for pickup. We just stopped responding to this stuff altogether and eventually she got the pic.