Both DH and I worked today - he from 8-2:30 me from 8-6pm. I called him at about 4pm to see if he had the folding chair (borrowed from his work) he said "no, didn't have time was a very bust day. When I got home dad was out the door. His dad cares for the skids when we are working on Saturdays. I said "I gotta go". He said " I didn't have time to get a card either" I said I gotta call you back.

Really, I'm not allowed to use my cell phone during work, however I user it as an excuse because I was getting upset at DH. He understood we hung up in short manner.

When I got out to the car (with two chair I borrowed from work (because he forgot). I mad a stop at the supermarket Fromm cake and a bday card -- because HAr could not do either. Since I was there I purchased 2 bottles of wine.

So I get home and say, you need to get the stuff from the car -- I carried in my own wine. He and stepdaughters helped empty my car - two chair and a cake. When he got into the kitchen I said, calming --- I worker just as long and hard as you dud today. In fact I worker longer. You could have taken 30 moneyed out of your day on the way home to get all this stuff dine for your daughter. This is the second time invade done thus, I dint appreciate it.

His eyes weld up with tears and he walked sways. Later he said, I need to make more of an effort in doing things. When I asked if we had candles....

So, tonight I thank god for wine and Xanax!!! Both seem to be keeping me even temptred.