I copied the following message from my SS11's BM FB Wall (she posted this on Oct 18th):

BM: Just walked into my son's room to turn off the TV (I thought he fell asleep with it on for the 100th time) and was traumatized by what I saw!!!! SMDH Oh No!!!! Its way too soon ... : -0

My response: Totally natural part of maturation. This is something that [only] his father can help him with.

It is a damn shame that her stupid azo felt more inclined to talk about this on FB rather than to call his father to inform him so that [he & only he] can have a father-son talk with him. Of course, DH, has experienced this change in life & how dare she rob her son of the guidance he so deserves from his father. Her dumb azo probably went ballistic on him & made a big deal out of nothing. I truly hope she doesn't distort his mind about how beautiful sex & intimacy is (when it's with the right person). One guy told her on FB that she hasn't seen nothing yet to just give him another 3-years & my thoughts were (& when things get out of hand 'you-dumb-b*t$ch' don't you dare think to call my DH). She's such a waste of words! SMH!
FYI: BM, has [no] idea that the response I provided was actually from me. She's actually FB friends with one of my relatives (which is how I found out about her message). I simply provided my response through my relative's FBs friend connection to BM. My relative attached the following message to my inbox last night as follows:
My Lord, cuz, I just went over to BM's page to see what comment she might have responded to what you wrote & the crazy b@t*h deleted the post. She still has the other 13 posts but apparently this b@t*h has major issues & strong hate for her son's father. She truly doesn't want to acknowledge anything about her son's father's existence. This is my 2nd time posting something relevant to her fostering a loving relationship with her son & his father; she simply deletes my post (without any comment, her rude a*s). When I write anything else (complimentary to her), she's full of words (as long as I'm writing about her evil & ugly a*s). Scanky evil b*t@h!!! So, I went through several posts that I wrote on her pics feeding her ego & I deleted my comments (showing her she's not the only one who can play the deleting game). My heart goes out for you & your DH (especially his son). Your poor SS11.....We don't have a choice [when we're born] of who our parents are. He really lucked out with that female there! That b*t@h just turns my stomach. I've said it before and I'll say it again: I don't understand how any WOMAN who claims to love her child refuses to foster a relationship between her child and that child's father. She's a PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A WOMAN; and while I'm not one to turn my nose up at ppl and think I'm better than them, she's one that I'll turn my nose up at ANY TIME ' CAUSE SHE'S JUST Ewwwwww!!! What a sour taste she leaves in my mouth.

Now, what I'm trying to understand is why am I annoyed by all of this?? BM really aggravates me & I clearly do not understand her way of thinking (so I've given up). But, how can a woman treat her child in such a way & then think she loves her child. How could she decide that her son is not going to have a relationship with his father (without a logical cause)? Now keep in mind that my DH petitioned the courts over 5 years to place a child support order on himself for the [legal] financial support for his son after we married. When DH married me, it enraged BM to no end & removing DH's son & blocking a loving relationship between the two has been her mission . . . she's really horrible & this is bothering me a little. I told my DH what was told to me about his son masturbating & BM walking in on it & felt better to put it on FB rather than to place a call to him to talk to his son about matter. He felt strong concern that she may have beat his son & punished him for it. Oh how I wish I could talk to SS11 b/c he's very talkative when he's with me (and he's told me about a time his mom beat him so badly that he had a sore on is buttocks that had a burning sensation when he showered). It made me so angry that I told DH & also I told SS that his mom should not hit him to the extent of causing physical harm (that it's termed abuse); that if his mom ever hurt him like that again to tell someone: his father, a school official, or me . . . I'm closing now this blog is too long & I'm so sorry for that I'm just somewhat upset at this whole ordeal . . . SMH.