Is it just me, or is it creepy to have SD12 hanging all over Daddy....
She is 12...but she is a 12 year old with a 36C bra size and hangs all over daddy. I feel like she is too old for that and it makes me feel awkward.
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Daddy feels like his kids are
Daddy feels like his kids are close to him, and its not just her it is SS10. I have a 14 and 7 that want to do things with them and they would rather sit on each side of daddy's arm watching TV. SD12 has also requested in a letter that she misses just the 3 of them and needs more alone time with him, and BM is making all kinds of suggestions.
In my opionin, it depends on
In my opionin, it depends on the situation. I lived with my
mom and stepfather and my stepfather was like a daddy to me. We were very closeand I am sure I hung all over him. There was never anything ugly or perverted in any of it. I did have one uncle that I stayed away from as much as possible because he would try to block me in a rv and such in his "attempt to scare me away from boys".
I didnt hang all over my Daddy because we werent very close and I felt uneasy even giving him a hug knowing that my brother that was born soon after the divorce papers from my mom were signed was by a 14 year old. He liked and still likes young girls so no, there would not be any hanging on him. The other day my daughter and her best friend from babies were wrestling with my husband and jumping in his lap and such. Both girls are only 7 but when I came in here and the friend was just sitting in DH's lap, it freaked me out and I told her that her Daddy would not like that at all so she got up. I dont think my husband would try anything with a young girl such as this but this was not okay in my opinion simply because she is not his daughter.
I don't feel like it is a
I don't feel like it is a perverted thing,,,but,,,I don't hang on him as much as his kids, why cant they go play or just sit in the same room and watch tv...Why does it always have to be sitting on top of him...both of them...like my Daddy..
I really dont know what to
I really dont know what to say here unless there is something going on that they feel the need to be so up and personal with their daddy. I guess in most situations the kids would be watching television or playing but since these kids dont live here full time I am guessing, they are trying to spend all their free time with him. Wish I could help more.
..knowing that my brother
..knowing that my brother that was born soon after the divorce papers from my mom were signed was by a 14 year old. He liked and still likes young girls so no, there would not be any hanging on him
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Wheresmywart...OMG! I don't know what else to say!
Yea... its messed up. I do
Yea... its messed up. I do love my Daddy but there is no way I want to be alone with him nor leave my kids alone with him. My brother is messed up too. Recently my Mom and Dad remarried and that lasted for all of a month. My Dad actually raised my brother and all he could say was he was so upset they hadnt gotten married sooner so she could have protected him from Daddy. My brother acts so much like him too its unreal. I am not sure if this is true or not but while we was up there, my brother and Daddy got into an argument and my brother accused my Daddy of molesting my oldest half sister by him. We were dumbfounded and of course my Daddy denied this. My half sister by my mom would not come visit moma nor let her kids stay because she had bad feelings about the place from when she was little. (not sure if that is completely true or not because she would stay as a teenager even when I came home because I couldnt get along with my daddy and he was the only daddy she knew when she was little). Before my Mom ever agreed to remarry my Dadddy, my sister assured her that Daddy had never touched her in any sexual way. Well... my dad says my mom cried the whole time because my nephew couldnt come stay (she basically raised him) and my mom said she had forgotten what an ahole be basically was over the 21 years they were divorced. Anyways, my sister finds out she has stomach cancer so I pick my mom up to bring her home to be with my sister while she goes to the doctor. Next thing I know, Moma tells me shes not going back and has me call my other half sister who does indeed say that my Daddy molested her and told her that if she told anyone, he would molest my other sister. Well, my mom definitely refused to go back then and I got to be a product of their divorce twice, well.. theyre not officially divorced but you know what I mean. Maybe all this explains why Im so screwy in the head:P