So my stepchild(not really her father and I aren't married)but been the only mother in her life for 2 years....Why is it or should I say how is it that an almost 11 yr old girl could be making my life and home hell! I am the adult here but I feel I have lost control.
Okay seen alot of you say you don't like your stepchild...and I am there. I can't stand to see her walk in a room. She makes me ill to my stomach. She lies so much that when she opens her mouth is she telling the truth for once?! So how did I get to this point...when I met her things were good...she loved me and I loved her...but somewhere I guess her true colors came out...from 8 yrs old till now....she is evil!
She steals, she lies, she says ugly things to people, she has went in her brothers room and taken things, she has texted me from her fathers phone...after I texted him...I didn't even know it wasnt him till someone told me..no it wasnt mean things but it was the point all the same, its never her fault..its everyone else doing this or that not her...example she called a kid a b*tch in school last year...she called my child that while in bed at night...they share a room, she has cut up things not hers...she cuts up her own stuff...she gives things to people to make a friend but doesnt keep them very long because she has to be the leader and the boss...I see bad bad things in her future...but to get her dad to understand he has to do something is like talking to a rock....he says I pick at her...well maybe at this point I honestly do cause she makes me sick...this has boiled for 2 yrs and he hasnt done anything but ground her to her room for a night....with tv...after him and her have a yelling match...i have listened to her come into the room he was in a say ...hey dad look what im wearing to school tomorrow and he said no your not..she said yeah I am he said no your not they are to short she said no they arent I am wearing them...he said no your not she said watch me...and walked back in her room...if she is punished to her room she thinks of 9million things to come out...and he lets her....you send her to take a shower she stays in there forever and after her hair drys its still dirty...who would take a shower and never wash there hair...attention she wants ...EVERYONES attention good or bad...from the nurse at school to the neighbor driving by....she has went as far to go the the nurse at school and say she had lice...omg embarrassing..nothing embarrasses her...she wanted to wear my childs clothes to school because they would be tighter...and skirt would be shorter....and this was at 9...now she is almost 11 its getting worse....this isnt a stage....dont say that because I been around a million kids in my life(i work for the public school) and there is just somethign wrong with her....mentally...
also....she isnt his..even though he has raised her since birth..but my thought her mother wasnt right...what if her real father wasnt either and something is wrong....to get her help...we tried she lied to them...she told them she was hearing voices and it was telling her to kill people and that she was getting up at night and looking at the wall

omg I think I am going to lose my mind....or I gotta run with my child and let him deal with the she devil on his own....and feel for the next woman to take my place!