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Submitted by clceci on Fri, 04/02/2010 - 10:53pm

never really thought about it but i will be a step mom when we marry. The only prob is that he isn't divorced........so here is the thing....he says he wants to be divorced and married her bc she had good P***** and she said so. So will he divorce her bc I said so? Maybe bc he thinks I have good P****? He is a truck driver, born and bred in the deep country. He is the all knowing of everything military, guns, tractors, helicopters, etc...but when asked to fill out paperwork, he is worthless. He does not understand and just does not do it....makes like it does not exist. What do I do with this?

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Submitted by Snowbunny on Sat, 04/03/2010 - 2:42am

Hold the phone...your his fiance but he's not divorced? Not even getting divorced? I know a lot of people get together with someone when they're in the process of divorce but that means that the process has at least been started. I'm sorry, but I don't think you're his fiance at all.

Personally, I think that if he doesn't want or is too lazy to fill out the paperwork that he doesn't really want to be divorced. And even if he does, do you really want to be with a man that lazy and useless? Go find another guy, sweetie. There are plenty of fully-functioning fish in the sea.