So due to all of the events that happened over Xmas and the vaca. I was just a little upset that she still thought it wise to have her new son give our son a Xmas present. Sure they are close in age and get along well. And we have even tried to let them be friends. So SD could maybe have a better realtionship with everyone. But when she sent a present with a note that said "I wish you could come play I know you cant and because you are my sisters brother we can be friends." (she wrote it dictated ny a 5 yr old.)

I got really upset and I sent back the present with a note that said: Please dont send these types of messages to MY son because there is no way they could have a relationship if my son cannot even have a proper relationship with his real sister.

Well now we are in the dog house. We are not allowed to talk to SD unless it goes thru her first. And even tho there is no custody yet established. We were always pretty good till now. We havent seen SD in 2 weeks and when we try to call to talk to her she cant she's busy.

What to do?