So due to all of the events that happened over Xmas and the vaca. I was just a little upset that she still thought it wise to have her new son give our son a Xmas present. Sure they are close in age and get along well. And we have even tried to let them be friends. So SD could maybe have a better realtionship with everyone. But when she sent a present with a note that said "I wish you could come play I know you cant and because you are my sisters brother we can be friends." (she wrote it dictated ny a 5 yr old.)