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Tired of dh playing favorite with ss

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Submitted by cantmissamy on Tue, 01/12/2010 - 6:57pm

Tonight I am so pissed off. Dh has been playing favorite with ss and tonight it came to a head here at our house. Bs asked ss for help with a game, well ss did not help bio with the game he just took it over and refused to give it back. Well dh did not say a dang thing about it, and when I mentioned that ss was refusing to give back game he took up for him and said well he asked for help.. Enough is enough here... I told dh that was the straw that broke the camels back and from now on he can take care of his own damn son and I would take care of mine. I will make meals for my son and do his laundry and dh can do the same for him and ss.. I am so sick of worrying about ss grades, etc... So if dh wants ss to be a dumb ass because bio said it was true then so be it.. I am emotionally at my end of the rope here..

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Submitted by Totalybogus on Tue, 01/12/2010 - 8:10pm

My x's oldest daughter was very big. My x believed that "might made right" and would allow his daughter to intimidate and bully my girls. Well, two can play at that game. I told both of them that if she ever laid a hand on either of my kids, they'd be scraping her off the floor. That was the end of that.

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Submitted by ChaiLatte on Tue, 01/12/2010 - 11:19pm

lol Nice one Totalybogus!

"There comes a time when you have to surrender the idea of what your children could be to the reality of who they are."

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Submitted by sbplus3 on Tue, 01/12/2010 - 11:42pm

I am right there with you! I am sorry you have to feel this way because I know EXACTLY what it feels like. My bS always asks his brother (11SS) to help him with video games etc. and the kid always takes it away! When they play together, SS also has to win every time just to make himself feel like a winner...even though he is 6 years older than my son. He is such a bully and it is disgusting! It sucks that you feel like you have to protect your own kids in your own home against someone that they are related to! I often vent to my husband and he finally has stepped it up a bit after I let him have it. I think you handled it right! Once your husband knows it is pissing you off, he should take care of it...and if not you should totally follow through with your threats! I have done that before too! Good luck.