I hear these things and it seems like my life unfolding on this site, my husband takes everything i say and swaps it around till its negative and then blames me for starting a fight. He is always asking me to trail him foot to foot, and always saying come here, at the rate we go he doesnt even need legs. I usually go just to shut him up, he has a voice when its me, but let his little B****Y daughter want something and he goes running. I agree also that if these men and their exes cant control the monsters they brought into the world and then let run like wild indians, it shouldnt be up to me to take the crap. Enough is enough!

atwitsend I total get where you are coming from

My fiance does the samething with his daughter. Everyone in the house is to do for themselves except sd. She is 16 soon to be 17 and her "daddy" still has to make her breakfast all the time Puts her sandwiches together for her and even makes her burgers up for her (adding the ketchup and mustard and stuff for her) I have a 9 years old who does those things for himself.
He drops everything he is doing to run to egt her from places and will give her a ride where ever she wants to go Yet my 15 year old bs can walk everywhere because we live in a small town. He calls that the double standard he has for girls to boys But my bd makes her own burgers and is more than able to make herself food when she wants to and she is 12 and he doesnt drop everything to run to her aid when she needs to go somewhere or be picked up

Wow...My DH too, we were discussing money and i told him just be carefull what your spending money on... He still will tell you i told him he was careless with money and acted like a child abou it...its so hard to talk to them sometimes...ITs good to know im not the only one that has this problem!