ok so dh finaly talked to bm about our only being able to talk to skids for 3-10 min each time split between them, she said "i only have a certain amount of minutes that's not my problem unless ur gonna pay my bill" so dh made the suggestion of getting a land line bm shot that right down so he said "add me in as one of your friends n family so the phone calls wont use up your minutes".. so she called the next day and said she added us on her thing but only the land line and if we call from our cell phone she wont answer she doesnt care. well number one this was nice of her so we can have more time BUT there is days we are not home at all so if we call from our cell she does just what she said she would do..not answer. so it's like she is saying if you wanna talk to your kids then you need to stay home to talk to them or you wont be allowed to.
ANNOYING!!!