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well my name is brandi. im 27 yrs old. and my fiance is 33 yrs old. we have been together for 5 yrs. he is my everything. well i first met him i was living with my friend, who was his kids aunt. well he said that he moved back to nc bc he caught his now ex wife cheating on him. she wanted to move to west virginia and so he up and left everything he knew to go somewhere where he knew noone. when he was 21 he was diagnosed with gout. over the yrs it has got really bad. he now is disabled and cant keep a job bc the wrong move can land him in the bed for wks to months at a time. he and his ex have 4 kids together. they are the first ones to discover that their mother was cheating on their dad on a camping trip. they told thomas but his ex said are you gonna believe them or me? but he quickly found out the truth. well when he moved down here we met and i instantly fell in love with him. he was sooo good looking and sweet. i met 2 of his 4 kids...the oldest a girl and the youngest a boy. they were sweet kids and me and the oldest kit it off automatically. i later met his other 2 girls. i moved in with him and 3 months later we found out i was pregnant. he didnt like it and neither did his kids or ex. but they came around...well he and his kids did. they were soooo excited when hannah was born. this is also the time that sd moved in with us. she was the best kid she helped me with hannah and her dad. she maintained an A average. she was awsome. and then things happened with her. she was placed in a psychiatric facility for a wk. she was cutting and having suicidal thoughts. most of them steaming from the way her mom treated her while she was down here with us. after she was released, her mom came and took her back to wv. i guess she tought we couldnt take care of her. but once she moved back she was a completely different kid. and so were all the kids. they dont have to follow rules at their moms and think they can do whatever at our house and they cant. if hannah has rules they are going to have rules. well they didnt like that and they dont came down any more. we called in april to tell them that we were expecting another baby and (pardon my expretion) shit hit the fan. thomas pays his child support and everything. but bc he doesnt have a full time job we cant send them money everytime they want anything. so they get mad. me and thomas have done everything to have everyone get along but it never works. the kids mom is always making them feel like if they talk to us then they are betraying her. its a damn mess.

well here is our recent feud. ss was diagnosed with MRSA. well my mom is a nurse and i first called her. mom what is this and she told me then i googled it... and read as much as i can and i gained alot of knowleage... the internet is a beautiful thing!!! lol! so i know how the wound is supposed to be cared for and cleaned and how EVERYTHING is supposed to be sanitized! well his mom didnt follow the directions. yesterday my fiance gets a text form his oldest daughter and was told that ss was admitted to the hospital bc he had 2 infested spots on his leg. thy had to scrap it and he was in an isolation tent. well thomas calls his mom and we make plans, and drop everything and go see him. well she calls the ex and she asks who all is comeing and she says me, william(her husband), thomas, brandi and hannah. she said oh no yall just stay home. about an hr later sd16 texts her dad and asks if hes coming and he told her no bc he wasnt leaving me here by myself while im pregnant. then she cusses him from head to toe... a 16 yr old cusses her dad!!!!! what is happeneing with these kids these days!!! then she proceeds to cuss me out when she texts me. she called her dad "worthless" and me a "bitch" and she cant stand us... she said for us to take care of our little family we have and forget about them bc they plan to forget about us. i was sooooo heart broken. i had a panic attack and cried all day. i told thomas to go. but he wouldnt leave me. i cant make him go...unless i force him in the car and drive him myself! but i was really upset and found this site last night and i was like this is heaven sent and i really hope theres understanding ppl on here that can help me.......