Childish or Just Right?
Recently FH and I have found out that SD with put in a car with a drunk driver while with her BM! Personally I am outraged about this and just feel sad that SD had to go through that. Because of this I am unable to see eye-to-eye with BM recently. She is blaming others for her mistake and is more annoyed that she got caught than anything. Anyways, people (mainly her family) have been saying that my issues with her are petty and childish. That I should stop being mad at her and let go of the past (even though we just found out!!!). They seem to think that my SD is going to be more "messed" up from FH and BM not being close than from being in a car with a drunk driver. Personally I think that letting it go so fast sends the message that this is okay. Personally I that that letting go the fact that SD is neglected over at BMs is almost excusing it. I would like to know others opinions. Should I let go and make nice with BM for SD, or should I fight to make sure that SD is no longer put in situations that endanger her life?
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You're right but dad needs to
You're right but dad needs to handle this.
They will never see that you are concerned about SD. They will just see it as you taking a jab at BM.
It's already been reported,
It's already been reported, the cop that pulled the car over reported it. We found out from the police report. As for Dad "taking care of it," he does, HOWEVER I am apart of this whole thing too. My attitude toward her is noticed. And I have a right to that. I have the right to go to my SD's activities wether BM is there or not. I think saying Dad should "take care of it" is a cop out, I mean sure he handles all needed communication, but I am still going to have to communicate with her. I am still going to have to see her and be around.