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Submitted by Yme on Wed, 05/04/2011 - 6:57am

:jawdrop: Well SD13 has a school "field trip" to a pro ball game this Thursday...SD13 pranced in with the slip yesterday all cocky like we owed her something!!!!.....Well DH told her "FLAT OUT NO!!!!" "You were so rude and nasty to mom during our vacation that I will not reward you with a fun day out of school!!!"
FINALLY!!! Hope DH taking a firm step forward with SD13 will help!!!

Need to see if i'm on or off track........

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Submitted by Yme on Tue, 05/03/2011 - 4:33pm

SD13 hates me and goes days at a time saying NOTHING to me or joining in family activities...Lies and manipulates...SD13 has psych issues and is on meds...she has done many things over the years o cause the Dr's to warn us about safety in our home and wiht others SD13 is around...So she is not the typical rebelious teen...Because of the disruption SD13 causes by not talking and by sitting out of famiy activities DH is trying to put his foot down and have SD13 be social(guided by the therapist)...DH has asked SD13 to "Just be nice to Mom"...respectful..just how she would "treat the bus drive

It will NEVER end!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by Yme on Mon, 05/02/2011 - 3:48pm

Camping trip was JUST what I thought! H3LL!!!!!!!!!!! SD13 sat and pouted for hours at a time.....didnt open her mouth when i was around BUT chatted like a mag-pie while I was out of sight! SD13 sat and passed out nasty looks day after day! I tried my best to not let it bother me.... PROBLEM: DH did NOTHING! even after saying that he would not let SD13 disrespect me!

UGGGGHHHHHHHH!! Why are DH's SO STUPID??? Need some one liners to get through vacation.....help please...

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Submitted by Yme on Mon, 04/25/2011 - 3:57pm

I got the nerve to tell DH that I was unhappy with his lack of parenting now that i have disengaged and put the ball in his court...(where it should have been all along)...has caused me much anxiety and concern for the safety of others in my home...He seemed to listen....and said that he would work harder as he sees my point....wow....

What can I do to get F'nDH to LISTEN and F'n PUNISH his F'n D13?????

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Submitted by Yme on Sun, 04/24/2011 - 7:22pm

I am so angry and upset but mostly HURT by F'nDH's LACK of stepping up and PUNISHING the H3LL out of is SPAWN Daughter 13 for all the crap and disrespect she is causing!!!!!I have been really really really trying as hard as I can to disengage....BUT I see that I am really not good at it Sad I was so happy at first when I told DH and SD13 that I had had all I was going to take and the parenting would b up to F'nDH....I would only reinforce the basic safety rules and F'nDH would do th

Just found Burned paper in SD13's room! GOT TO READ **UPDATE** at bottom

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Submitted by Yme on Tue, 04/19/2011 - 11:12am

Im in a panic! Just found burned paper in SD13's room (you bet I snoop in her room she write all kinds of stuff about wishing "her step mom" (me) were dead and how much she hates me in her journal and i have the right to know!) I am just sick! 3 times over the past few weeks our fire alarm has gone off at 2 am and there appeared to be no reason for it....I am mad because I am not sure how DH will handle this....i didnt find a match or lighter....but the paper is from her scetch book and it is her's alone! it is charred....no question what it is!!
now what do i do??????????

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