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Are you going to change?

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This is not really political. But I know that a lot of people think the US is now going to go to hell in a hand basket. (worse than it is)

Are you preparing to live any different? I know some people on FB are talking about starting gardens and trying to be more self-sufficient. My won DH wants to purchase another gun or two. LOL.

I am just hoping I don’t’ have to change a thing about my life or standard of living. lol

I have a issue as a BM.

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I will try to condense this as best as I can. I was married to my ex for 15 years. He turned into a giant alcoholic and drug user. After the divorce he would pick up the kids randomly at best. Then he disappeared for over two years and on and on and on. He has not really talked to the kids in 5 years. And he has been in prison for almost a year now.

Oh YES...it can happen to you!

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I left that out. Our BM loves that $1500 a month and she's not parting with it. So I'm pretty safe. Thank God. I never thought I'd find the silver lining in the CS shakedown but if ever there was one, this would be it. LOL
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I copied this from another post. I remember when I felt this way also!!

History...fact or fiction - not spam! haha

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Its funny how our DH’s forget about some of the crap the skids have done in the past. Last night DH and I got on the subject of how much better skid got after he came to live with us.

We got on the subject of how SS used to go to the Dr ALLLL the time because BM wanted the kid to have some serious illness. It was sick what she used to do to that boy.

ME: “I remember when he ran you ragged the first 2 months that he lived here because you had to take him to the DR at least once a week for various ailments”

DH:…”I never took SS to the DR when he moved in!”

My hypocrisy!

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I just realized that yesterday was our 4 year anniversary. DH and I both forgot!!

BUUUT…I am kind of butthurt that DH forgot. I mean really!! How dare he?!! Lol

Now...how to bring it up and make him feel bad about forgetting..lol

Small vent.

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UGH. I have had to deal with SS and BM 10 times more in the last month that SS has been deployed than I have in the last year put together. Deployment is basically a giant vacation for SS. LOL

The good news is that SS is seeing a lot of the world that most of us never will. And he will NEVER see any kind of combat in the position he is in.

I guess it really never ends.

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You really think that once the skid is gone and out of the house, and deployed, that the BM would back off. But noooooo.

She has been texting my DH every morning at about 6:00AM. It has only been for 3 days, but still. GAH. I just really did think it would end. But it seems to have picked up a little. YAY for me!! NOT.

And all she wants is to know if DH has talked to SS. That’s it and it is usually only one or two texts, but it still makes me want to kick the shit out of someone.

SS still makes me want to puke from across the world.

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Even across the world, SS can be such a stupid little turd.

DH has not talked to him for almost a week because he was told by SS that once he was deployed, he cannot communicate hardly at all, so he will just have to lend letters. So DH has been a giant drama queen about not being able to talk to “HIS SON” for the last week.

This morning DH called me and was so excited and wanted me to go read his email because SS sent him an email. I was like ok, hold on…so I get on DH’s email and the top line says…

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