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Submitted by Willow2010 on Thu, 06/13/2013 - 2:45pm

Sooooo… last night I walked outside and DH was on the phone with SS. I could tell that the tone of the conversation changed when I walked out. Anyway, he grunted a lot and at that end of the convo, he told him to hang in there and he was very proud of him. GAG ME!

I could tell something was wrong so I asked. UGH…Apparently SS got into MORE trouble.

This is the story I got….

SS walked into a room where there was some type of initiation crap going on and then an officer walked in right after that, so SS got into trouble with all of the rest. (this is probably the tenth time that I know of that SS has just been in the wrong place at the wrong time).

FML…DH said he may be kicked out of the military. Again..FML.
I KNOW he will want to move back in with us. And our rule is that you can live here after HS graduation if you work part time and go to college full time. I don’t know how I am going to handle this if it happens. My SS is not as bad as a lot of them, but he is bad enough. Liar, thief, showboat, bully. But he is very respectful to us. (To our face.) LOL.. Go figure.

I wonder if there is any way to beg the military to keep him!

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Submitted by hismineandours on Thu, 06/13/2013 - 3:09pm

Isnt it amazing all this bad luck our skids have? Always being in the wrong place at the wrong time? Always being blamed for things that they are completely innocent of? Strange.

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Submitted by Never said I wa... on Thu, 06/13/2013 - 3:13pm

Good luck hope they don't kick him out for your sake. As for me i wont have to worry about SS and an after high school deal there will just be none especially how things are going right now.

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Submitted by oldone on Thu, 06/13/2013 - 3:17pm

I think you need to amend your rule. You MAY NOT move back in if you get kicked out of school, military, job, etc.

In other words - this is not a place for you to come crawling back to when you fuck up big time.

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Thu, 06/13/2013 - 3:23pm

I wish oldone. But its not SS fault you know. It never is. We can't punish the man/child for something that he had no part of! :sick:

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Thu, 06/13/2013 - 3:21pm

Thanks guy. I am just soooo not ready to ....

Hate going home.
Hiding in my home when there.
Listening to SS talk about how great BM is.
Listening to SS talk and talk and talk and talk.
Listening to SS tell the same story over and over and over. WITH A DIFFERENT ENDING EVERY TIME. (this is the one that really pisses me off)
Watch DH treat him like a fragile flower because the military wrongly kicked him out.
Never have any food and have to go back to hiding my Diet Cokes.
Have BM in our lives a lot more than she is now.

And so much more.

I am just crossing my fingers.

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Submitted by queen-B on Thu, 06/13/2013 - 3:39pm

This is what I think every time my FDH says, well, Thing1 will just have to join the military. A coworker of mine had her son released from the army after boot camp; not for any infractions, but because he just couldn't quite cut it. Pretty decent kid, too. Thing1 has all the drive of a dilapidated sea slug, and an inability to follow basic instructions. Thing1 has no business in our military (for whom I thank God every day).

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Thu, 06/13/2013 - 3:43pm

To be honest..I am surprised that SS has lasted this long. Over 1 year.

And since they took SS, I assume they will take anyone. (In this branch anyway). No way SS would have made it through Marine boot camp.

SS barely passed HS. He had ALL kinds of disciplinary actions in his school record. He was just not a good hard working kid like you expect to go into the military.

But they took him! How dare they try to give him back!!