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It's Been a Week!

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Submitted by WifeVersion2.0 on Wed, 04/01/2015 - 10:49pm

I told him I was moving out last Tuesday. He was shocked, upset and sad but didn't lose his temper. He suddenly wanted to listen to me, I suddenly had his full attention. He said all the right things, he would go to counseling, he would do whatever it took to change my mind.

Getting things in place......and trying to keep calm

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Submitted by WifeVersion2.0 on Tue, 03/17/2015 - 10:30pm

So, I've told my parents that I'm leaving my husband, with subtle hints as to what the final straw was.

I talk to a counselor tomorrow, hoping she can give me guidance on how/when to tell him that I'm done.

Have appointments this week to look at a few different places to move into with my boy(s). Talked to my oldest son about what was going on today and he's supportive and agrees I'm making the best decision.

Oh boy!

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Submitted by WifeVersion2.0 on Tue, 12/02/2014 - 10:01pm

BM has been asking for our address the past few weeks. She texted SS (who lives with her) and he didn't know it, she texted DH and when he didn't respond fast enough she texted SD (who lives with us) then she texted DH back saying Nevermind so I'm assuming SD gave her the address.

Teen SD

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Submitted by WifeVersion2.0 on Mon, 09/15/2014 - 12:19pm

I confirmed what I have suspected for a while that SD17 and her boyfriend have had sex. She said it was just once and they haven't since then but I'm not sure I'm buying it. And if it was just once that's because I finally showed DH (by making him read SD's text messages) that things were happening at the BF's house even when his parents were home because they allow the kids to be in the BF's room unattended. SD hasn't been allowed to go to BF's house since then.

So the questions of this week is: Put SD on birth control or not?

I saw this train wreck coming!

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Submitted by WifeVersion2.0 on Wed, 08/20/2014 - 6:59am

When SD moved in with us, BM suddenly became a Disney Parent to SS who still lives with her. There were suddenly no rules and few, if any, consequences for bad behavior.

Suddenly BM has a teenage boy that's bigger than her who has zero respect for her and has no problem talking back to her and telling her No when he's told to do something.

Pooooor BM

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Submitted by WifeVersion2.0 on Thu, 05/29/2014 - 11:39pm

SD received 2 awards at school this evening, BM of course doesn't show up, even though she has her on Thursdays.

Instead, SD gets a voicemail from her poor mommy that she's not coming to her awards tonight because "your dad is really upset with me and I don't want to set him off".

Seriously? Yes, DH is upset with BM but that's not really new, he's been upset with her for years! And in all the 7 years I've been around they've attended dozens of kid events together without making any kind of scene in public and in front of the kids.

Lost my cool and sent a text to BM......

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Submitted by WifeVersion2.0 on Tue, 05/27/2014 - 2:30pm

I should have posted here first so ya'll could talk some sense back into me, but I didn't. Sad

Oh well, it doesn't matter.....she will just ignore them anyway since she likes to pretend I don't exist. Or she will text my husband and he will get mad at me for losing my cool but I don't care about that anymore either. I'm not wrong, she is. And someone needs to let her know that what she's doing isn't OK.

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