Well, as I have mentioned in some posts, I have decided to get some therapy for myself. My appointment is in an hour and a half, I am nervous! I have been ranting for years that we all (in our family) need some therapy. When DH and ex first divorced the SK's were in therapy and I insisted that they stop. I still think I was right. It was only serving to tell the SK's that divorce was a tragedy and it was OK to act out becuse of it. BM picked the therapist and was dictating to the councelor what the SK's issues were and in her narcissistc fashion, manipulating the Dr.