I am all out of empathy

YSD has disrespected me for the last time. That kid may not appreciate a damn thing I have done for her but she will surely miss it, now that's it's gone.

She can keep chasing after BM for scraps of attention because that will be all she is going to have to look forward to.

I am willing to tolerate a lot of things but not the constant disrespect. As of today I informed YSD and SO that from this point on YSD will not be included in anything I plan, I will not take her anywhere and I will not spend a dine in her for anything. Her b'day present will be sold.

I told YSD I hope getting to be disrespectful was worth her spending this summer sitting home doing absolutely nothing.

Today because she was told to clean the dirty dishes in her room. Her response was to write on the white board "Shut the F$ck up" and then proceed to color in marker on all my dishes. She is 13 by the way not 4.

SO was surprisingly supportive and turned her phone off.

Neither of her parents do anything with her or plan anything. It was always me that included her in plans and activities and she finally pushed me to the point where I am over it. I don't have an ounce of forgiveness left.

At least I get to look forward to a nice summer without any bratty SKs.

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Some lessons can only be

Some lessons can only be taught by a stepmother. Good on you for finally kicking her to the curb and getting on with your life. Let her parents suffer with her.

I don’t know what’s more wrong

That a 14yo is so messed up that she thinks scrawling obscenities on dinnerware is going to get her what she wants, or her parents have failed so badly in their duties over the course of the last decade that they've managed to produce a person like her...

Oh my God, I cannot even

Oh my God, I cannot even imagine.

My SD (now, 29) would have never even thought of doing something like that because she knew her dad would have her ASS.

I mean, really, why did she think that that would be an okay thing to do?

Is that all her father did, shut her phone off?

He is taking her door off her

He is taking her door off her room and if she doesn't straighten up he is taking everything out of her room.

This behavior is normal to her all of BMs kids were taught it is okay to talk to adults like that. BM had her own mother arrested for slapping her oldest son after he called his grandmother a whore.

BM allows this kind of behavior and language. She would come rescue OSD from punishment here when OSD was groundied for her disrespectful potty mouth.

Had to re-read... WOW

BM had her own mother arrested for slapping her oldest son after he called his grandmother a whore.

Yes and she would tell at SO

Yes and she would yell at SO if he dare redirected her kids. She would tell them they don't have to listen to him he is just the boyfriend.

They would steal from SO, urinate in his drinks, trash the house and break things and BM would support it.

SOs mother told me she went over there and they were mouthing off to her.

BMs two sons and nephew assaulted one of Thier uncle's breaking his ribs and she had the uncle arrested for assault for defending himself!!!

Wow

I would have lost it, that whiteboard all markers and anything else she could make a mark with gone from her room and she'd have been lucky if one of those dishes didn't come flying back at her head. What a disrespectful twat!

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this person in your house/life. You're right, she gets nothing from you again. And if this is the way BM raises her children and she tells them it's ok, you know dad will just be vilified for any consequences he puts down. How pathetic on BMs part teaching them it's ok to talk to ANYONE like that. Good luck to them in life!