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So much has happened since I last posted in here...I would not even begin to know where to start. Sadly, the lies from DH have continued. It all revolves around his second ex wife and her kids. My two step-daughters got together with them last weekend to spend the night with her kids at their mother's house and to do Christmas. When I found out about it (through one of the kids FB posts), I asked DH what they were doing Friday night, and he said nothing. Then when I specifically asked him if they were getting together, he finially admitted it. However, my BS asked if he could do Christmas with my SD's, and SD15 said no. This hurts. What hurts more is the fact that anytime ex wife #2 and her kids come up, DH lies about it. It makes it seem like there is more to it and he feels as if he has to lie to me about it. Nothing has changed, other than I am gone, and they no longer have to "hide" anything from me. I told DH to go and put his former little happy family back together...and I hung up on him.
I am facing Christmas alone since BS will be at his dad's. I am dredding it.
I am planning on self medicating...hopefully I will just sleep through it all.
Desperatly seeking my Vienna....
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I'm sorry. I've noticed SO
I'm sorry. I've noticed SO not telling me about some things lately about BM and her family because he feels like I "just get mad" anyway.
That is blatant though. Having a family holiday time and not even telling you. That is just gross to me.
Wait he spent the night with
Wait he spent the night with his ex??!!! Wtf!!!??? What a complete and utter piece of shit. I am so sorry. Although I know it hurts you must know how much better u deserve and that you will be wayyy better off without him. He does not deserve u one bit. He has chose his ex over you and your family so let him have her. I wouldn't waste one more second dedicating myself to a loser man who puts me not only last but puts his ex and their family before me. What a sorry sob. I am so so sorry. Go out on xmas. Go to a club, get DOLLED up, go dancing and have a blast with strangers. Watch the handsome men roll in. You don't have to do anything with them, just have fun and start working towards erring your self esteem, self respect, your pride, your happiness, what usto make u YOU back. You will start feeling much better even after one time of going out. I promise u. All my prayers.
NO...no no...his KIDS spent
NO...no no...his KIDS spent the night with their ex step sisters....I know...it's confusing. I am wife #3
But he did lie to me about them getting together...as usual...
Oh don't get me wrong...I did
Oh don't get me wrong...I did not want to be any part of this celebration. My SD's are from My DH's 1ST wife. He was married a second time and she had two kids from her first marriage (their dad commited suicide when they were babies). DH was with this woman for almost 5 years, and was only married to her for 1 year. I have been haunted by this lady and her kids almost since the beginning. Since he got together with me just a few months after he ended it with her, I honestly think he never got over her and her kids (they called him daddy). So, whenever THEY come up, he lies to me about it. Several years ago, DH took our kids to the park, and he called me to see if I would come up there. I was not feeling well, and I told him no. After thinking about it...I decided to go ahead and go up there. When I pulled in, a car pulled in front of me...and it was Ex-wife #2 and her kids. This was NOT a big park at all. DH hurried up and got in his car and left. When I got home, he SWORE that it was a harmless coincidence. I didn't and still don't believe him....and that's when all of our problems started....
DH and I are separated. He
DH and I are separated. He says that it was just them that went...but who knows
For the record...he started
For the record...he started text messaging x2 three days after I moved out....pictures and all. He swears he HATES her, but he also told me that they discussed OUR relationship...UGH :sick: :sick:
Oh no, not acceptable.
Oh no, not acceptable. :sick:
Give it time. The separation is new. You will move on and miss him less and less. ((((((((hugs))))))))
Oh how Terrible! Honey you
Oh how Terrible! Honey you deserve better. Period. Move on... Like alwaysanxiois said the missing him and the pain also will get less and less. You dont want a man who is secretive or untrustworthy!! And besides, you can start fresh and follow this one important rule: Don't date a man with KIDS!!!
Hugs to you!!