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VERNIE's picture

O.K. - so I was on the phone with DH trying to have a conversation with him and SD13 is in the back ground going mocking me the whole time -"HI< MY NAME IS ****** AND I'M FAT AND I'M BORED AND I DON'T GO TO THE GYM ANY MORE AND I'M FAT" - so I hung up on him. WTF - What is the matter with teenage girls that they feel they can treat you like shit?!?!?!? By the way I have been in this relationship for 6 years and have done everything plus some for these kids!@!!!! When did I become the wicked witch of the west?!

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stepmom2one's picture

omg I can't believe he lets her talk to you that way! I don't know how you stick around.

VERNIE's picture

Sometimes I wonder the same thing. I know this blog site won't help every thing but it is letting me vent some where without hurting him Wink - In his defense he did tell her to shut up.

soverysad's picture

Why are you worried about hurting him? He isn't too concerned about your feelings. Telling her to shut up is not dealing with it. Shut up is just a phrase. It means nothing.

"God is great, beer is good, and people are crazy" and you can't change crazy!!

stepmom2one's picture

well at least he said something. She is out of control, and should have severe consquences for this type of behavior. imo

stepmom008's picture

Hell no - I would NOT put up with that. That's just plain abusive and he's GOT to get that under control. There is no excuse for that type of behavior. I'd ground the crap out of her. I'm really sorry that you have to deal with that.

"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".

VERNIE's picture

Unfortunately there is never any consiquenses for her behavior. EVER! I find myself wathching Super Nanny right now and wondering how hard it would be to get her to come to our house?

Kb3Hooah's picture

How long has she acted this way towards you??? That is ridiculous!!!

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VERNIE's picture

It's been getting worse over the past 2 years. At first we chaulked it up to almost loosing her BM twice - once to an auto accident - once to a brain amerisum. Now there should be no reason for it. I have stopped doing anything outside of household things for her and she can't seem to understand why - when I try to explain the reasoning to her she just walks away and doesn't want to hear it.

stepmom2one's picture

She walks away becuz she knows the reasons why. She is just asking to be a smart ass.