What is the matter with men?!?!?!?!

How is it OK for DH to be at his exes house watching tv but it is not OK for me to get upset about it cuz he "Didn't want to have to drive back into town later to get the kids". When asked how he would feel if the situation was reversed I was made to feel like an ass. GETTING REAL SICK OF THE BULL*&#$!!!!!!!!!!! I know he loves me but sometimes I really wonder why he has his head up his ass!

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He's probably used to the

He's probably used to the smell?

LMAO!!!!!!

You should not be made to

You should not be made to feel like an a$$ because you dont want him hanging out with his ex. If he would like to keep company with her then he should get back together with her. I would tell him bottom line that it is not ok and it will not happen again or his stuff will be on the lawn and he can take it to BMs house and hang out. It is completely disrespectful.

Tell him you'll talk to him

Tell him you'll talk to him again after his rectal cranial inversion.

"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"

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Soon after she remarried and

Soon after she remarried and had another baby with her new husband, FH's ex would hand him her baby to hold out in public places when I was there (but funny, her new husband was never present when this happened!). I would be super pissed at FH and he would get defensive, etc. I finally just said-- 100% unaccetable to do again. Ever. I believe this was after I found out he was in her kitchen, hanging out with his son, and "playing with the baby."
It's not your baby, she somehow manages holding her baby and doing shit most of the time, it not for you to help her with (besides the fact that she is manipulative and psychologically abusive to FH!).
And then one time she handed the baby to him, and I just reached over and grabbed her. The ex was surprised and took that baby back telling me "that's okay-- I can handle her."
Set the rule-- it's bottom line, unacceptable. Period. Picking up kids, talking about schedules, etc. all fine. Hanging out and watching TV- not.

I personally would have

I personally would have thrown a complete shit-fit! Is he trying to give his kid a complex? Super friendly ex-behaviour is bad news!!! For everyone!

Helllll no he should not be

Helllll no he should not be hanging around his ex's house. That is B.S. and if it can not understand why ANY woman would be upset about that then he is dumber than.......man I can't even think of anything more dumb than that. :O

"One should examine oneself for a very long time before thinking of condemning others." ~Moliere

Personally i dont like shit

Personally i dont like shit fits but i do find that they are effective if used sparingly and at the right moment. When my dh came back from hanging out with the ex i took that moment to throw a shit fit that put all other (few and selectively placed) shit fits to shame. It never happened again lol.

"if you don't have anything nice to say, then shut the fuck up."