it's difficult to talk to my husband because he see's how upset i get but cant stop her nonsense- like i said I wish i had an off button to shut her mouth up- she says anything she can to try to get him upset- especially knowing how much he loves his kids- she will create a lie about something one of the kids said to try to make me or my son look bad- and now that we have a child- lil girl- she claims we are trying to stick her down their throat! CRAZY LADY_ they have been with their step sister since she was born!! They love her!
Its soo unfortunate to know that some people live the rest of their lives trying to ruin the new family of their x husbands'... soo crazy if u think about it- u two didnt work out for alot of reasons- cheating/lying/abuse- there was even one point in time when i first met her i felt sorry for her because one of her boyfriends trd to break her finger...i consolded her and gave her help and later found out that he found her with another man and thats what REALLY happened... whoa..lies n manipulation again... just a roller-coaster ride of a person... it seems like the moment she gets bored with her own drama she tries to spread the crazy- i guess misery loves company!!

i feel releived to let this out- its not ALL of it- but just the most recent crap she is pulling on us... she is the kind of BABY MOMA that you dread having- a complete nightmare!
I have tried to discuss with her at times but get hung up on... its a shame cause she see's her kids were better off with us- we offered them more stability and help with their homework- gave them structure and love, she tries to destroy it all by caling me the "NANNY" -she's so dam immature- i'm dealing with a spoiled teenager trapped in a grown womans body with kids... UGHHHH...

thanks alot

The majority of the time I dont speak to her- it's funny cause it's the relayed messages given to me from her through BD- how I cant tell the kids to clean up after themselves cause I dont need to discipline them at all- they're his kids- its bad enough she tells them NOT to listen to me as it is.. about 5 yrs ago she told me she wasnt going to her eldest daughters sweet 16 BECAUSE I was GOING.. i told her SHE IS YOUR DAUGHTER and it would hurt her to not see you there- you need to be there she sd well you'll be there.. i told her I am no replacement- they are your kids not mine- you should be there FOR HER.. we even paid for all their tickets including hers!! I try to show support but get all this BS in return.. BD tells me to ignore her - I know i cant change her- she needs to get a real life already and stop messing with ours!

the eldest daughter and grandchild lived with us at the same time about 1 year-and I taught her how to drive, how to apply for a job and work, while i watched her baby so she could work -and tried to help her become independant- so she can raise her child and live her OWN LIFE- she was on the right path- needless to say -the BM didnt like the fact I was such an influence to her eldest... she put an end to our relationship as well- evil manipulation- kids dont realize when they are being treated like a puppet- when all they know is that treatment..... God is the only truth- why cant we all just get along?? I grew up with NO FATHER AND A MENTALLY ILL MOTHER sooo I crave the stability for us and our KIDS- life is hard enough dealing with bills and life in general... why make things harder BM?? WAKE UP LADY- I'M HERE TO HELP- HAVE SOME DAMN RESPECT ALREADY!!

So latest drama- all geared towards me again- y am i not surprised?? -she calls OUR JOB-she tells BD that the kids are upset with ME because i put something on FB about her! I NEVER PUT ANYTHING ON FB AIMED AT HER!! she makes it seem like I am the difficult one to HER- i AM NOT THE ONE WHO TELLS THE KIDS if her and I are not getting along- she starts her crap with me then claims she is a victim!! I am soo over this shit! Manipulation rears its ugly again by the she devil!
She is involving the kids once again- just so she can keep our blended family seperated and unhappy with her BS- be a damn woman for once! No she tells him she refuses to meet us so we can pick up the youngest sd- and grandchild- so now i guess thats MY fault also UGHHH- wowow

QUESTIONS I WANT TO ASK HER>??
when was the last time you put your kids first? Before a man and before your own drama?? What are you accomplishing by putting your children in the middle of your hatred for me? Why would you want to tear apart the stability we offer them and the guidance and friendship i offer them, with your lies and manipulation? Did you forget they are innocent not your puppets to put against eachother and US?
What the hell is your problem with ME??!!
WTF- let us live our life - we dont bother you AT ALL EVER!! NO drama comes from either of US EVER!! Y the hell are you soo damn hatefull!

:sick: lovely morning- i feel drained- so last weekend she decided to not meet us -car issues supposedly- now she tells the youngest daughter and grandchild theyre coming over to our house this weekend - who in turn tell his son who lives with us - so when we find out- we let them know that he is going to their house because it IS HER WEEKEND- not ours- we have plans- it isnt right how she uses the kids to do her dirty work only to put them in the middle- so she call BD now -tells him he's selfish n a bad parent and now she refuses to take her son there to her house till Sunday for spring break when it is HER weekend also.. she is impossible! Always something to say, she finds a way to mess up plans just to spite him and try to upset him and us more! I cant stand her! OMG Calgon take me away>?! How do I help this man and Myself deal with so much BS all the time- she gets started and its like shes a torando of negativity and drama.. wow- draining me......