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CPS!!!!!! WTF

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Sunday last week:

FSD(6) is taking a bath. She dumps water all over the bathroom floor. SO goes into the bathroom to clean up the water. FSD mouths off to SO, which is pretty typical behavior for her. SO flicks FSD in the mouth. FSD jerks her head back and hits it on the other side of the tub.

Last Friday:

Quality Time

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I'm just wondering. Does quality time ever happen when you're entering a remarriage. My SO puts so much time into special activities when his kids are there and nothing towards the relationship. I can't even remember the last time we went out. Just the two of us. It just makes it so tough. Not being able to have that middle ground that a lot of couples have. You know that before kids time. It seems that we come into these relationships already fighting a losing battle. This is one thing that I am extremely jelous of his EX about. She got that time.

Doctors, Kids, and BM

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Begin vent:

Okay, so my SO had a pretty intersting convo last night with BM.

It started last Thursday night. When I got home from work I was told that FSD(6) was sick. She was running a feaver and sleeping. She continued to run a fever throughout the weekend. Nothing high enough to worry. Both my SO and I made sure that she had plenty of liqids, tylenol, rest, and tried to get her to eat.

Disengaging

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So i have heard mention several times on this site about disengaging and how effective it is. So after an issue this last weeked I suggested that to my SO. We have his kids every other week and when they are with us it's the me me me show. SO has a BD(6) and a BS(4). All day on the weekends all you hear in the house id daddy, daddy, daddy, I'm thirsty, I'm hungry, daddy, daddy, daddy. It drives me nuts. We don't get anytime to spend together until they're finally asleep. I can't even sit with him on the couch and watch a movie.

The Idiots Guide To Avoid Unacceptable Behavior After A Divorce

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So I actually just got done replying to someone elses blog with this and I thought that maybe we could have some fun with it.

If the courts were to hand out books to both parties in the divorce as to what behavior is unacceptable now that the two are no longer married, what do you think it should say?

1.) Expecting to retain any marital rights with your ex-husband from your previous marrage is not going to happen.

2.) Manipulating the kids and playing mind games with them is unacceptable for any parent.

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