I've been a way for a while, mostly because we haven't seen SS for over a year because of all the drama that you all can relate to. However, for the last few months BM has been call my husband wanting him to get back involve with SS. Well the reason why is because she can't control SS who is only 6yrs. old. He's been getting in trouble in school and talks back to her. Now I thought that we would get a phone call when he turned around 13, that age when they start smelling themseleves. So now my husband picks him up from school on wednesday and fridays everyweek and keeps him til 7pm.

BM finally got a man!!! She has been saying that she had one months ago but we knew they she didn't because she was so worried about what we are doing. When we dropped off ss on Sunday we saw him through the window. I am not sure how long this will last( can't see anything wanting to be with such a control freak) but my question is do you think that now that she has a man she will stop all of her BS atleast for a while. I ask this because she has made comments to DH before about that another man is going to take his place as ss father.

My stepson's BM is a control freak and wants to put in place a lot of restrictions when it comes to ss. She is a chiropractic and believes in alternate health. She only wants ss to eat organic food. (Which does not make sense because she is a fat cow) No sweets or regular food at anytime. She also does not believe in giving him medication. When he is sick he is to be given only natural medication. Well, this weekend she sent him over with a nasty cough and runny nose. She never told my husband what she gave him. My husbands never follows a lot of her rules when it comes to food.