guess i haven't felt the need to complain much lately since the skids went back to bm's house (thank GOD!) but i've had a few things that have been bothering me so here goes...

1. bm does not work, lives off the government and has 3 three children. i am angry becuase i have to leave my babies every day to work to support them and she sits at home, collects cs for dh's son and has the audacity to send the kids to my front door randomly to ask dh for money! dh and i had a discussion about her having her hand out all the time and how it drives me crazy! so last time she sent them to the door ss6 says "momma said she needs some money" dh replies " tell her i said get a job"...go dh!!

2. when it is her weekend, she does not call, or have ss10 call, she just drives by my apts to see if our cars are there and sends them to the front door because she needs a babysitter...i feel like i am being stalked! literally i dont feel comfortable in my own home. ugh!! i absolutely hate her! anyway last two times she has done this, dh was at work and i had plans so they could not stay with me. haha bm! that's what you get for trying the sneek attack! time before last, she came to the door after i told the boys i was walking out the door to go to an appt and they couldnt stay. she again asked me if i was not going to be home. really?! it's your weekend! take care of your kids!! i dont have to lie to you or explain anything to you. she apologizes for just dropping by but dh was not answering his phone, he was at work...and then she tells me she lets ss10 call and she figured he had called the house phone too. well no he didnt and you are still the parent, right? shouldnt you be trying to make contact before you just drop them off?

3. when i wont take the kids on her weekend, or she cant find a babysitter within her own family she drops them off at sil house. now that is totally up to her if she wants to keep the kids but i am angry at her for taking advantage of sil. she is the nicest person in the world and will give the shirt off her back to anyone and will never say no. but she has 6 children of her own that drive her crazy, her husband is absolutely no help at all and my other sil lives next door to her and she is never home so sil #1 always has the majority of the time 10+ kids to watch and this sorry excuse of a mother just drives by and drops her kids off too. what's two more? even though she knows one person cant possible keep an eye on all of those kids! but who cares she gets her break...

ok i feel better now