state of emergency, my @$$. the roads are bone dry, and the freaking SUN is out!
*rme*

ok, now on to dh.

he's pissed at me because i told him he was clinically insane. *giggles* well, it's true!!!

he let the boys go to a game last night. lurch rode w/ friends, g-ma took kaos and dh said he'd go pick him up afterwards. made it very clear- "phone ON. you WILL answer if i call. call me when u'd like me to leave to pick u back up."

later on dh get a call. he leaves. lurch gets home, 10 mins later dh and kaos arrive. and dh is LIVID. at lurch.

turns out, the call was "where ARE you? everyone's almost gone, why havent u picked me up yet?" (ummmm, u never called and said "hey, game's almost over, can u leave now?", totally ignoring dh's very clear instructions) and lurch left w/ his friends, left his 12 yr old brother alone. effing really? never called dh ("uh are u on your way to get kaos? my friends are about to leave") and never thought to tell his buddies "hey i'm gonna stay here w/ kaos and ride home w/ dad".

i told dh, h3ll i'd be mad at BOTH and ground them BOTH from games for a month (well, kaos maybe a wk or two, lurch i'd go a month), PLUS i'd take their phones for a week for not using them RESPONSIBLY.

dh was so mad at lurch for just leaving kaos that he could not even listen to reason, finally he asked me to quit talking about it cuz he was getting more angry. wtf ever. so i said "dh, get your @$$ of your shoulders and listen to logic. DO SOMETHING about it instead of just getting angry. u issue no consequenses, so NOTHING CHANGES. u are embodying the very definition of insanity - you yell, they wait for it to blow over, and the same $#it happens the next day. and the next day. and the next day. you 'handle' them the same way but expect things to miraculously change! $#it doesnt work that way!!! set your emotion aside and actually DO something different fertheluvaGOD."

then i went to bed and wolverine pouted out on the couch all night. GAH.