Follow up to "am I overreacting" blog. I know I am not overreacting and I know this kids needs help. I spoke to my husband about it and he took SS7 downstairs in the basement and had a "talk" with him. Apparently this "talk" was in one ear and out the other because when he came back upstairs all he told BD7 was that if he answered all of his dads questions he would get to see santa. Then he said "and guess what? I get to see santa" I spoke to DH and he said that SS7 was crying about it and how emotional he was with him. I fail to see the emotion. He did not even tell BD7 he was sorry or anything, seeing santa was the only thing he cared about. When I told DH about the incident, I said you need to get on the phone now and find him a counselor and schedule him an appointment. This was yesterday (Friday). Well guess what? No phone calls were made, no appointments made nothing. I asked him WTF you need to do something about this and he said he believes SS7 and feels their talk really sunk in and that SS won't do it again. So it looks ladys that I am going to be moving out very shortly. Every second I am here I feel as though I am allowing this to happen. Thing is DH does not want to face the fact that his son has issues. Whether I am here or not he is going to have to face this at some point. Hopefully it won't be when golden child is sitting behind bars.