Plans to go out with SO and another couple tonight. Not supposed to have skids this weekend. My phone was acting up this afternoon - noticed I got a vm from the 17yr old (she still isn't speaking to her dad). Her message to me was this: Tell my dad that his wife has to go to the hospital and we need him to pick up _____(her sister).
So, she referred to his EX wife as his wife, to me, his fiancé. Nice. She continues her disrespectful ways. At his request, I just blocked her phone # so I don't have to deal with her at all. SMH

This site is such a good outlet and I've gotten some great advice just reading all the feedback. My SO commented that his paycheck was a little less than he expected and lamented about cs coming out - not a complaint, it is what it is. That made me think - his oldest will be 18 in Dec. She is still staying at a friends - won't go back to her mom's and doesn't want to come to our house (thankfully - cause no room or patience for her anyway). I have a gut feeling she probably won't graduate HS this June and go on to college - she's really screwing things up.

Just venting....my SO's 17 yr old is a manipulative b*tch. This weekend is his with both his girls...she texted him last nite that she won't be coming over. It was all I could do to stop myself from breaking into a happy dance. I'm sure she'll call him for something tho...a ride somewhere or money. I'm just glad she won't be with us. Vent over..for now.

Check this out - my SO's 2 teen daughters just got their first paychecks - they only work 2 days a week and get paid once a month. They each cleared $150. Their bm has told them they both owe her money. She claims the 15 yr old broke a candle she got at a garage sale for $75 so she feels she owes her the 75. WTH? The youngest is 15 and she is clearly afraid of her mom. She says if she doesn't give her the money, she'll get grounded and will have to spend hours cleaning the house and getting yelled at.